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    Explain Frame Control

    the definition of the frame is the underlying meaning or idea behind the interaction. in pickup the obvious frame you should have is that you and the girl are going to have sex. so in your conversations you want to insert this "frame" or "idea" into her head. frame control comes down to when she...
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    Women "claiming" you?

    unfortunatley girls will try and claim you and get you taken off the market, but it can be overcome. think about what you would do in the same situation on a cold approach pickup situation. 3 set, your gaming your target and one of her friends try to c.ock block you. what do you do? same thing...
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    NEXT - is this a solution ?

    when you learn how to properly attract a woman using cold approach techniques, the women chase you, they never flake. you make the choice wether or not you are going to flake on them. she needs to know that you have many options and that if she flakes on her opportunity she may not get another...
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    “I have a boyfriend” …How to respond

    c.ocky funny comments can work at times, but when it comes to the boyfriend objection it mostly comes off as try-hard. better to just deflect, ignore, and change the subject. this technique is also very useful dealing with wanna be AMOGS.
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    “I have a boyfriend” …How to respond

    There are 3 different possible scenarios she means when she says that dreaded line, “I have a boyfriend.” Once you figure out which scenario you are dealing with, you’ll know what type of chick you’re dealing with and how to respond. The first scenario is where the girl actually has a...
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    Reply for "Will you buy me a drink?"

    My fav response is...."sure but only after you buy the first round." if she does buy the first round, when she hands you the drink tell her, "you do know that this drink has a time limit right? ok now entertain me....GO!" i also like to say this one only on 10's. "sorry, but i refuse to pay...
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    Sticking point definitely has to be F-closing. HELP ME!!!!

    sometimes no matter how good your game is the girl wont cheat. however this game can be won. i know cause this is one of my wing man's specialties. i'll give you the cliff notes version. you have to lower the girl's anti-slut defense by showing to her that you understand her situation, and that...
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    A New Beginning

    i'd advise you to start learning pickup outside of your college environment. once you graduate you'll find yourself having to go out and look to meet girls. they wont be as plentiful and as easy to find cause they're not all in your classes or just walking around campus. its a much different...
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    how do you deal with a chick who just got out of an relationship?

    treat her the same as any other girl you are trying to game.
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    She said, "Let's take it slow, you can see other women." How should I react?

    this basically means she is going to pursue other options as well as you, which you should be doing anyway. or she is already seeing other guys, which is not supprising. she is also telling you dont be suprised if i dump you for another guy. enjoy your time with her, but dont treat her like your...
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    do you think there is different class in every men?

    let me just say that first off looks really dont matter all that much, at least to a large % of women out there. good looks help but they are not the end all be all. unfortunately women do see different values that makes us more attractive. personality & charisma is the number one thing most...
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    What would you say to this?

    keep in mind some girls say they have a bf as a s.hit test. believe 10% of her words and 90% of her actons. the s.hit test is to see if you give up like an AFC when she turns up the heat a little bit. so just blow it off like you didnt even hear it and dont care, and proceed to game her. until...
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    What would you say to this?

    when a girl tells me she has a bf, which is very rare these days, i like using this response. what a relief! i though i might have another stalker on my hands...lol but thats cool, i understand how to be discreet, and plus i know you'll have something to do when we're not hanging out....lol
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    Need help after the number close

    have a reason your getting her number not just like hey we should hang out sometime. i like to use concert dates, or some other type of show that has a specific date in the future. make sure that you also exchange #'s, you want your name to show on her phone when you call or text. your first...
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    how long before you text them? does it matter

    ^^^This is killer advice, couldnt have said it better myself. Also you didnt build any attraction either, she doesnt have any reason to call you or text you back. once you have built some attraction and have an event you told her about then the phone # becomes solid, not just we should hang out...
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    Need some advice

    alcohol......here's the picture you want to paint. after one long week of school or work you feel like just staying home and having a few ****tails to unwind and that she should join you. break out the liquor and pour a bunch of shots down her throat. blast some good music that you both like...
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    Coworker giving mix signals

    dont just think that if she touches her hair its an absolute IOI. you should game her a little bit first to see how high her interest levels are. other wise be very careful with dipping your pen in the company ink. if she's 50/50 and you find yourself chasing, stay way. if she's a solid Go, then...
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    Tired and Fed up but still sticking around...

    you dont have to worry about dumping her, cause she's already dumped you. this is typical attractive female behavior. they have 5-10 dudes on the side that all serve a certain purpose. whether its the rich guy that is her sugar daddy, mr popular at the night club that gets her into all the hot...
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    Cold approach situation

    you are 100% incorrect. they all flaked because you built no attraction. remember having rapport is not attraction. you should be breaking rapport in the beginning. you can still be direct, but breaking rapport is still needed. thats what makes you a challenge. you need to talk about some...
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    Am I being played?

    AW for sure, i was right thinking this girl is really young. she's trying to show off in front of her friends. i wouldnt be suprised if she was still a virgin. she's looking for popularity points. and oh by the way if cant spot the sucker at the table....your the sucker.
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