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you are going way overboard in order to just get a girl. reeks of desperation, and i'm sure there are other parts of your personality that she sees as low value. even if you do get rid of the other guy, you still probably wont get the girl. you've been friend zoned. its the kiss of death. i...

you might need to adjust your overall look. try changing your waredrobe, grow some facial hair. change your hairstyle. what would you say is your overall style? college preppy/surfer guy- hollister, cargo shorts, flip flops, pink polo shirts, bead necklaces, justin beiber hair alternative...

most girls i talk to like some form of facial hair. they say it looks sexy. depending on the girl, some like full beards, goatees, and some like a little stubble. so my rule of thumb is to always have at least some stubble. i currently have a beard that ive been growing for about a year. its...

bottom line is the reason girls flake is because she's not attracted to you and doesnt want to hang out with you. girls that are attracted to you dont flake. calling a girl out on her behavior does nothing. playing it cool by saying "ok" does nothing either. there's nothing you can say that will...

you are always in control of what type of relationship you want to have. if the girl you pickup does not meet your criteria you have the choice to cut her off. remember you are the chooser, not her. and yes these techniques will work for what you are looking for.

your game has to be pretty tight. you must be congruent. you will have to be very confident, and be able to pass a ton of s-hit tests. your body language will have to remain strong. basically you have to treat her as if you were her daddy. be dominant. the hardest part is to stay in that frame...

what i like to do is this. find something that is a passion or hobby that you like to do. something that you know that you already have plans to do on a certain night and invite her to tag along. if she flakes on you it doesnt matter, you already have plans to do that, and its something that...

you dont have to take girls out to fancy resturants to get laid. as a matter of fact its actually counter-intuative. dont be one of her orbiters who provides some sort of service for her that she doesnt pay for. i'm not necessarily calling them gold diggers, but there are a lot of socially...

i used to be in the same situation. it took me a while to get out of it. but after 6 years of learning game its all a thing of the past. i've written a couple of articles that should help you out a lot. let me know what you think. http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=186136...

looks are not that important. if you are ugly and have good game you will only weed out the shallow girls who are only into guys for their good looks. those are not the type of girls you want anyway. guys are attracted to physical traits, most girls are attracted to emotional traits. thats...

the best way to get better at escalation is to practice. its a lot like approach anxiety, its scary at first but once you get going its really not a big deal. the way i got over it is like this. go out one night with the mentality that i'm going to be the overly aggressive touchy feely weird...

i would just ignore conversations about him, otherwise you could end up being her therapist, and you dont want that. continue to build up her attraction and dont forget to physically escalate.

your friend escalated and made out with her and you didnt. your hesitation caused you to lose the girl. you should have been making out with her when she put her arms around you. you didnt make your move so she went to plan b, your other friend. he closed, you lost. make your move next time...

sounds a lot like cat string theory. at some point you have to let her get the string. you are playing a lot of unnessasary games. if her attraction and interest levels for you are high why play games when you can just make your move and get laid. if you dont make your move she is going to put 2...

first of all the reason you were not successful was not because you failed her s-hit tests. you failed way before that. and they also werent s-hit tests, they were statements of dis-interest. you start off saying you've know her a couple of months, and the climax of your second date was a hug...

you are walking on thin ice my friend. you are acting really needy and she may just want some space to get away and hang out with some friends. you should do the same. this is the fastest way to lose a girl. you got mad cause she didnt hang out with you a couple of times. you are putting way to...

^a lot of good points and i agree in principle for the most part. one thing that i want to add is this. you said that you were asking what types of guys she's likes and she said alpa guys. first off you should never ask that. is sub communicates that you dont know what women want. secondly you...

i hate to break it to you d0g but she's blowing you off. your date with her did not go very well as you think it did. if the climax of your date was a hug, you have a lot to work on. 4 hours of conversation and no physical escalation equals friend zone. she probably did enjoy your company but...

I read a lot of posts on this site that start with the words “I met this girl a couple of months ago”. 9 times out of 10 you have missed your window of opportunity. It can be saved in some situations but the fact is this. It’s much harder to fix what you’ve broken than it is to meet someone new...

a girl saying she has a boyfriend is in some cases a s-hit test. she wants to see how you react under the pressure. will you fold up and leave, or will you not be effected and continue to be confident and still get the girl. if you have built enough attraction the boyfriend will not effect her...