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When she tells you she has boyfriend

entropy_sim

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I have had some experiences before with girls telling me they had boyfriend but non has been like my recent experience. I would like to see what others think...

I was introduced to her through a friend as i was looking for someone to practice a foreign language with. We met 4-5 times and it was all about practicing language together and of course having some fun. As she is new in town and does not have many friends i offered help many times when she needed. All this while she did not tell me that she has a BF and she was getting a little flirty and i also started to develop some feelings... I had promised to fix something in her house so few days ago i went there... The house set up was sort of romantic and she asked me a few times why i were nice to her... I tried to escalade but long story short it just didnt happened and we went out for lunch.. During lunch she told me that she has a boyfriend and that they got together when she moved in the town, but the guy has been away since then and she is having a difficult time but he will be back next week.. and then started asking about my relationships and how things are with me... And right after these awkward moments she asked if i would like to go out with her friends another day...

since then i cant really figure out what her deal is anyhow i would appreciate if you put your two cents in...
 

Greasy Pig

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She might be looking to branch swing or she might just be using you to boost her ego while the BF is away.
If you're really keen on her, don't go out with her friends, try to get her alone for a few leg-opening drinks.
If you're not that fussed, meet the friends and either game them like a muthafvcker or try to fvck em.
Seeing her friends interacting positively with you may force her to escalate with you, or you'll get to bang one of her hot friends.
And I'd turn up with at least one wing.
 

thevilittletroll

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a girl saying she has a boyfriend is in some cases a s-hit test. she wants to see how you react under the pressure. will you fold up and leave, or will you not be effected and continue to be confident and still get the girl. if you have built enough attraction the boyfriend will not effect her decision to have sex with you. in your case it seems like she is at the beginning of the end of a long distance relationship anyways. stay close to the situation and continue to build attraction with her. most importantly stay out of the friend zone. you can do this by continuing to physically escalate on her. make sure she knows you see her as a sexual partner. otherwise when she does break up with her boyfriend she'll come to you and want to talk about it. you dont want that. you want her to come over and have sex instead.
 
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