I'm talking about the ones who's **** don't stink and piss gold. Not the dumb ones but the ones who are doctors, PhD holders, and lawyers. The ones making over 100k/year Experienced Don Juans, what are some techniques to reel them in and get them addicted to you? How do you deal with the sheer number of friends, I mean, orbiters that these women attract(and bring up in conversation) when you first get to know them?
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High Self Esteem HB9's an HB10's
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Harry Wilmington
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Real talk: I've dated lawyers, teachers, doctors, a scientist one time... they're not worth it. They keep busy schedules (which can be a plus, 'cause they're usually not clingy), and when they DO go out they're usually tired. They also tend to be out of shape since they mostly sit around all day without getting much exercise.
Furthermore, they tend to be high maintenance in certain areas: if they're generous, they're argumentative; if they're easy to get along with, they make enough money to where they expect the guys they date to be making the same amount, or are able to take them out to fancier places.
My point: don't be fooled into thinking that chicks with high-paying jobs and book smarts know how to treat a man. They're usually the ones that are single the longest because they're focusing on their careers and don't put enough practice into being a tolerable woman.
Now... with ALL that said, I am experienced in this area. I dated a lawyer chick for 5 months last year, 2 months of which I was living on someone else's couch. (Note: I ended up dumping HER, not the other way around - love when that happens.) We ended up f--king at her place on date 2, which wasn't even really a date - it was more like she called and said "hey, you free today? Why not come over?"
To be honest, there really isn't a specific technique I can think of to get these babes to like you. These days I'm not nearly as desperate to land a chick as I was back in my AFC days, and I think women can sense that from me. As long as you can show that you're confident about yourself, aren't clingy, and are a fun guy, any chick - be it lawyer or fry cook - will want to go out with you.
Oh, and make sure you f--k 'em good, too. If you can get them to orgasm, they'll stay around for quite a while
Furthermore, they tend to be high maintenance in certain areas: if they're generous, they're argumentative; if they're easy to get along with, they make enough money to where they expect the guys they date to be making the same amount, or are able to take them out to fancier places.
My point: don't be fooled into thinking that chicks with high-paying jobs and book smarts know how to treat a man. They're usually the ones that are single the longest because they're focusing on their careers and don't put enough practice into being a tolerable woman.
Now... with ALL that said, I am experienced in this area. I dated a lawyer chick for 5 months last year, 2 months of which I was living on someone else's couch. (Note: I ended up dumping HER, not the other way around - love when that happens.) We ended up f--king at her place on date 2, which wasn't even really a date - it was more like she called and said "hey, you free today? Why not come over?"
To be honest, there really isn't a specific technique I can think of to get these babes to like you. These days I'm not nearly as desperate to land a chick as I was back in my AFC days, and I think women can sense that from me. As long as you can show that you're confident about yourself, aren't clingy, and are a fun guy, any chick - be it lawyer or fry cook - will want to go out with you.
Oh, and make sure you f--k 'em good, too. If you can get them to orgasm, they'll stay around for quite a while
@Harry
I ended up meeting this type of woman on an online dating site. You absolutely couldn't tell from her pic and profile she was a high maintenance hot chick. She is the type that has all types of rich guys fawn over her irl. When we went out on the date I mind fuked her when I asked her to split the bill, she nearly ran out on me lol. Funny thing is I got her not to leave and she began to really open up about how guys(her afcs orbiters) spoil the fuk out of her. I tell her I stay away from the type of woman she is, but if I were in her shoes I'd be taking advantage of these chumps(was that a bad thing to say to her?).
I understand why you would stay away from these type, this one in particular she is very sharp, she was on every word I said, by the end I was trying to use that to get into her head. I'm pretty sure she wants to see me again, she's definitely impressed with my lean physical build, compared me to a famous singer/actor. During the movie and in my car after was kinoing the hell out of me.
I got other girls on deck that I'm fuking so I'm treating this one as a side project. Treating it as a challenge to get into her head without trying to buy her with gifts like her "friends" have tried (and failed) to do. I suggested next time we go out we play pool, and she kept joking about if she has to pay(Was a bit nervous if I should have said yes because she had tried walking out when I asked her to split the bill) told her she didn't have to pay. Considering telling her jokingly to bring extra cash to be ready to lose on the pool game.
@PairPlusRoyalFlush
I have the same problem. I have had cute girls and 1 gorgeous long term girlfriend before and this woman is on par with the LT gf I've had, just more classy, smart, and independent. The last part of the night I did throw her a few negs (your spoiled rotten) which made me less intimidated. Its just the part when she almost left after eating made it awkward for her(and made me feel less confident tho I did my best to stay cool and not show it, she said "the movie saved me"). Also she texted me the day after and my response was a compliment and a neg... she ran with the neg and loved it. I Texted her the following day it wouldnt work between us because she is spoiled and I didn't try to buy her with an expensive dinner and stuff. Her response was "LOL, maybe..."
Figure I should continue to depedalize her but don't take it too far and get more physical(tho she is very christian)?
I ended up meeting this type of woman on an online dating site. You absolutely couldn't tell from her pic and profile she was a high maintenance hot chick. She is the type that has all types of rich guys fawn over her irl. When we went out on the date I mind fuked her when I asked her to split the bill, she nearly ran out on me lol. Funny thing is I got her not to leave and she began to really open up about how guys(her afcs orbiters) spoil the fuk out of her. I tell her I stay away from the type of woman she is, but if I were in her shoes I'd be taking advantage of these chumps(was that a bad thing to say to her?).
I understand why you would stay away from these type, this one in particular she is very sharp, she was on every word I said, by the end I was trying to use that to get into her head. I'm pretty sure she wants to see me again, she's definitely impressed with my lean physical build, compared me to a famous singer/actor. During the movie and in my car after was kinoing the hell out of me.
I got other girls on deck that I'm fuking so I'm treating this one as a side project. Treating it as a challenge to get into her head without trying to buy her with gifts like her "friends" have tried (and failed) to do. I suggested next time we go out we play pool, and she kept joking about if she has to pay(Was a bit nervous if I should have said yes because she had tried walking out when I asked her to split the bill) told her she didn't have to pay. Considering telling her jokingly to bring extra cash to be ready to lose on the pool game.
@PairPlusRoyalFlush
I have the same problem. I have had cute girls and 1 gorgeous long term girlfriend before and this woman is on par with the LT gf I've had, just more classy, smart, and independent. The last part of the night I did throw her a few negs (your spoiled rotten) which made me less intimidated. Its just the part when she almost left after eating made it awkward for her(and made me feel less confident tho I did my best to stay cool and not show it, she said "the movie saved me"). Also she texted me the day after and my response was a compliment and a neg... she ran with the neg and loved it. I Texted her the following day it wouldnt work between us because she is spoiled and I didn't try to buy her with an expensive dinner and stuff. Her response was "LOL, maybe..."
Figure I should continue to depedalize her but don't take it too far and get more physical(tho she is very christian)?
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
some of the most low self esteem women i have had sex with were professional women.. i.e fresh out of law school or career women , either very high 20's or low 30's.. good looking and you would think they have the world by the balls.
but see, you are projecting your values on them, that doesn't mean they see themselves like that. inf act most women like that are extremely insecure once you get to the core beucase they know they are competing with women 10 years younger than them for the same men. they also know that the men that they are attracted to or think they deserve, ar emore interested in having a woman who is their companion not their business parner, and aren't interested in having to pick up dinner 5 nights a week because you are busy at work until 8:30pm and too tired for sex once you get home.
this is what goes through the mind of professional women.
my wife might have, no, she does have a higher self esteem than I do and that's saying something beucase i'm quite arrogant lol. she knows she is hot. but she's not nasty about it she just knows what she is. she's very very sure of herself. and she doesn't have a job lol. her family has some money but they aren't just billionaires or anything like that she's not from a rich family. she's that because she knows she has exactly what a man like me wants.. good looks + no baggage + time and desire to be a devoted companion.
but see, you are projecting your values on them, that doesn't mean they see themselves like that. inf act most women like that are extremely insecure once you get to the core beucase they know they are competing with women 10 years younger than them for the same men. they also know that the men that they are attracted to or think they deserve, ar emore interested in having a woman who is their companion not their business parner, and aren't interested in having to pick up dinner 5 nights a week because you are busy at work until 8:30pm and too tired for sex once you get home.
this is what goes through the mind of professional women.
my wife might have, no, she does have a higher self esteem than I do and that's saying something beucase i'm quite arrogant lol. she knows she is hot. but she's not nasty about it she just knows what she is. she's very very sure of herself. and she doesn't have a job lol. her family has some money but they aren't just billionaires or anything like that she's not from a rich family. she's that because she knows she has exactly what a man like me wants.. good looks + no baggage + time and desire to be a devoted companion.
thevilittletroll
Senior Don Juan
your game has to be pretty tight. you must be congruent. you will have to be very confident, and be able to pass a ton of s-hit tests. your body language will have to remain strong. basically you have to treat her as if you were her daddy. be dominant. the hardest part is to stay in that frame all the time. you will also have to show high social value. you need to show you have a lot of cool male and female friends. that way it will show that your not needy or clingy. and remember to stay congruent, if she thinks that your trying to game her and you slip up somewhere and show low value traits, she will lose interest very quickly.
