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Why not give her my number?

Hey if anybody is on here I kinda need some advice really quickly.

Yeah, I flirt a lot with other girls around us. In fact, she just transferred to the school this semester, and I ignored her for a god 3 weeks, all the while letting her see me flirt with other girls (not on purpose, but in hindsight...lol). Then like 2 weeks ago we got to talking, and I've...

So, the girl that sits next to me in band class has been showing VERY high interest over the last week or so. Tons of kino from her, etc. Today, we were talking about winter and I say to her "let's go ice skating this weekend." She says "well I don't really have any free time...let me think." I...

I wouldn't do it, unless you are just looking to fvck her. If you want a relationship, she's too young. Oh, and if you just wanna hook up with her, make sure she's 18.

lol, I think the particulars need to be explained...

Depends on what you want from her. If it's a relationship, then stay away. She's trouble. However, if you just wanna fvck her, then go for it :)

Good luck! Remember, go in without any expectations.

It is fear. Fear of being inexperienced. I have the same problem.

I think you should start talking to her first.

I don't think so.

yeah I'm saying just tell your friend to give her the details about where you guys are going to meet, what time etc. That way you don't need to call her and worry about being creepy. Then, while you're out with her and everybody else, you can flirt with her and get her number.

yeah man, no need to be funny. Just stop texting her. If she doesn't contact you in 2 weeks or so, delete her number and forget her. In the mean time, just focus on other girls/activities and have a blast!

Spring break already? You lucky bastard :) Is it possible to call her friend whose number you have and ask her to deliver any messages you have for her?

hmm....no rapport? idk then...if paintball isn't until next weekend anyway, I'd wait. But that's just me. I think you should find her tomorrow, flirt with her a bit, then bring up the issue and get the number.

If she flakes, wait at least 2-3 weeks before trying again. And try to let her know subtly about any other girls that are interested in you. As for whether or not she will flake, I can't answer that. I have nowhere near enough experience.

Yeah, I agree. As long as you know her fairly well, then it would be fine to call her, but why not make some use out of it. Bust on her for avoiding you, since you obviously make her nervous with your amazing charm. lol.

Yeah I think I will do that. Thanks man, you've helped a lot. If I knew how to rate postings I'd rate yours lol.

Well, IMO, it all comes down to this: How important to you is her friendship. If it is important, I say forget about her romantically. Continue to flirt with her, all the time, but don't bother with her "like that." Date other girls, meet more people, and you'll be fine. If it isn't...

I see your logic. However, this raises another question. Let's say I ask her to the prom tomorrow, and she accepts. Then what? Prom is 6 weeks away! Doesn't it seem kinda weird to ask her on a date AFTER asking her to prom? Or am I just over analyzing? Do you get what I'm saying?