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    Friend better than husband?

    ** I've been doing some thinking (and searching this site for c0ckblocker advice), and I'm starting to wonder if friend is c0ckblocking me by persuading my wife to spend time with her ** No, no, no NO. This chick is not a c#ck blocker. I think your reading way to much into this...
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    Friend better than husband?

    ** I've been doing some thinking (and searching this site for c0ckblocker advice), and I'm starting to wonder if friend is c0ckblocking me by persuading my wife to spend time with her ** No, no, no NO. This chick is not a c#ck blocker. I think your reading way to much into this...
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    do you plan on staying single or marrying some day?

    Only if she's good enough.
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    Friend better than husband?

    I wasn't married but living with a girl. This was a girl who had no hobbies. I went to my martial arts 3 times a week and hung with the "Boys" once a month. Not excessive - I think you would agree. But for her it was to much because - in her words "I'm waiting at home for you"...
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    PLEASE I need help, ex-gf smokes because of me

    You broke up with her over 2 yrs ago - and she started smoking 3 weeks ago. Somewhere in there the math does not make sense. She's only now developed the habit? Give me a fvcking break will ya. Stop being AFC. Stop digging for excuses to someone who's weak willed. Stop blaming...
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    Friend better than husband?

    So what your saying is: 1) She doesn't have any interest's of her own. 2) She relies on you for a life - she's not capable of having a life of her own. 3) She's easily influenced and lead astray. If you don't provide for her entertainment, she'll go elsewhere to someone else and find...
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    Friend better than husband?

    There are a couple of ways to attack this. 1) would be to give the "What's good for the goose is good for the gander" line. Which would mean do your own things. Get your own life. Stop being available. Go out for beers with your buddies - and if you don't have any then get some or make some...
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    Advice(advanced)needed - raising the girl's interest level by cutting off all contact

    ** I just don't get why she did this to me. I am the best, I am the Don Juan, I know every trick in the book! Why me? I am supposed to be in control. The sweet little innocent girl that threw herself at me... now gone, moved on to someone more convienent for her it seems. ** You were not...
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    I know too much about my GF's past !

    It forever blows my mind why women divuldge the details fo their past relationships. It is all well and good being honest - but does honesty have to go to the details of the size of his d#ck - or to what she did, and then what he did? Being honest is fine - but putting all of your sh#t on...
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    Does she miss me??

    forget the b#tch
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    Would you let her get away with it?

    Realize that you will meet flakes in life. There are many of them - and they will both be male and female. The way to deal with this is not to give a fvck. It's happened to me also - and how I react depends on who she is and the circumstance. What I never do though - is call her out on...
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    Should I break no-contact and if so how?!

    I think you need to make that phone call. But you've got to keep it to the business at hand. Don't talk about the two of you. Don't question her on what she's doing or who she's with. You've got to protect your a## to some extent - and if you want access to your child I'd suggest you...
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    Should her past bother me?? (drugs, etc)

    Yes - nothing is perfect. As stated before... As long as her past is not interferring with the present - your fine. We all have our history.
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    Informing each other of our whereabouts

    Get a chastity belt as well..... But... I think your overreacting here. Are you worried that she's cheating on you? or that she's going out meeting other guys? The important part is that you trust her. If your worrying about it - then your giving he the power. I say you...
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    Informing each other of our whereabouts

    how long have you guys been dating? How old are you?
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    Rebuilding rapport with a 10

    ** NM - HB10's only act vain because its their *****shield talking. They generally have a very good upbringing and are wonderful people once you get to know them ** That's a huge generalization. HB's in my experience are vain because they are constantly in competition. They consistantly...
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    Out of the blue

    She made the move and called you. Call her back. Play it cool. She what she wants. Chances are she will ask you if you want to hook up. Be cool - take your time. And plan a day the week after. Tell her your busy this week/weekend.
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    Cutting off all contact but got a mortgage

    I understand your plight. Realise: * She doesn't want you back. She just wants to check up on you to make sure your still thinking of her and pinning over her. * The fact that she brought a guy to sign the documents shows how classless she is. She wants to rub it in. You did well. *...
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    My gf had an abortion in the past.....what does that say about her?

    Abortion is quite often not a difficult decision. I have meet a number of women who have had abortions - and to all of these the decision was an easy one. One of my good friends was dating a guy that turned out to be a storker. He was the jealous type who would go off of the handle if she...
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    Rebuilding rapport with a 10

    You can't turn into Whimpuss Americanus. That will just kill any of your chances. Don't bend over backwards trying to bag this chick. Hit her with the C&F for sure - but don't overdue it - I think in this case you may have come on to strong - perhaps a little desperate? Just continue...
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