Rebuilding rapport with a 10

[guittarjedi]

To make a long story short, I have been gaming an 18 year old blonde perfect 10 who looks like Paris Hilton. I successfully built attraction using C+F. I was beginning to build rapport but I began to get excited after having success like I've never had before and I hurriedly arranged to go drinking with this girl after work.

She gave me her number and told me to call her in 20 minutes she would meet me at the bar. When I called several times, I got her voice mail. Following bad Ross Jefferies flake advice I left a message stating that what she did was rude.

The next day I confronted her. She said she was tired and just didn't feel like going. In an attempt to raise my value, I completely ignored her from then on. She made attempts to get my attention and talk to me but I didn't budge.

Over the weekend after giving it alot of thought I realized that I was over reacting. All I succeeded in doing was completely break the rapport and attraction that I'd built with a gorgeous girl in her prime who could have any guy she chose.

I wanted to build our friendship back and completely start over. I turned on the sweetness and playfullness that had originally got me on her good side. I dare say I almost crossed the supplication line, but i began to get her to smile again. After 2 days I felt that I had regained her trust and she even initiated conversation with me.

Now that I've mended the fence I intend to move on to deepening rapport and escalation. I'm a little worried about losing attraction since I've toned down the C+F so much. She seems to really respond to my soft side, though. Any comments or suggestions?

 

[oda]

if she wanted to go with you she would have gone with you... i know it is harsh... dont budge man see if things will change

 

[oda]

i just reread both of our posts, and definately do not budge, if she sees you changing up your game plan everytime something goes wrong shes gonna know you will do anything to get the prize, her, you already made it clear that you are working for her and not the other way around

 

[NewMan]

You can't turn into Whimpuss Americanus.

That will just kill any of your chances.

Don't bend over backwards trying to bag this chick.

Hit her with the C&F for sure - but don't overdue it - I think in this case you may have come on to strong - perhaps a little desperate?

Just continue with your jibes and jokes - and be active and hit on the honnies outside of her.

a little social proof around this HB10 would do well for you as well. HB10's are generally very vain - bring along a HB8 and you'll have her preening and cooing around you.

 

[Lan]

You have no chance.. Just make her a friend and hook up with her friends.

NM - HB10's only act vain because its their *****shield talking. They generally have a very good upbringing and are wonderful people once you get to know them.

--Lan

 

[Desdinova]

She gave me her number and told me to call her in 20 minutes she would meet me at the bar. When I called several times, I got her voice mail.

The next day I confronted her. She said she was tired and just didn't feel like going.

She completely blew you off. She couldn't answer the phone to tell you she was tired? Also, what kind of an excuse is "I'm tired"? If a woman really wants to be with you, she'll put off her nap.

Following bad Ross Jefferies flake advice I left a message stating that what she did was rude.

I tried this and it doesn't work. It makes things worse.

Here's something you could try when a chick you see daily dumps out of a date. Most likely, she'll say "oooh I'm sorry I wasn't there." Just tell her "that's okay, I met a really nice lady while I was there. Me and her are planning on hooking up this weekend." It's called invisible social proof. It's like telling a woman how many other women want to go out with you. Yeah, you're bull5hitting her, but what difference does that make? She pulled the same crap on you, but this may increase her IL in you. It also communicates that she missed out on a good catch (you). That's when you put her on the backburner for a bit and let her wait her turn.

Now, back to your situation. You've got two things going against you right now
1) She didn't have a high IL in you to begin with.
2) You left a message that showed your emotion. By doing this, you've put her on a pedestal.

I'd say forget about this one. Let her make the next move (if she ever does).

 

[Don_Marko]

ACTION ACTION ACTION

Fck what these guys are saying... ignoring her or blowing her off will not get her in your bed!!!

Next time you are C&F-ing her tickle her, use kino... PLAY WITH HER... tell her she's a powerpuff girl, slap her ass and tell her you'd make millions pimping that or something along those lines Tell her she's boring and ask her to do something fun.... like take ur ass to a movie.

You can get aways with a lot more **** on 10's than on average girls so you can be a little outrageous.

Nonetheless you gotta ACT on it..... that's the only thing in the wolrd that will get her.... ignoring her won't allow you to fck her, nexting her won't allow u to fck her.... and waiting for her to call you sure as hell ain't going to get you laid.

 

[MindOverMatter]

jesus, not another powerpuff advocate haha...

that line is sooo overused, it's becoming corny as hell.

 

[NewMan]

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NM - HB10's only act vain because its their *****shield talking. They generally have a very good upbringing and are wonderful people once you get to know them
**

That's a huge generalization.

HB's in my experience are vain because they are constantly in competition. They consistantly play on their looks. They consistantly are judging themselves to other women in the room.

That's way (generally) HB9's and 10's have a low self esteem.

Play on it.

Neg Hit's work on them because they are vain.

 

[Don_Marko]

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
jesus, not another powerpuff advocate haha...

that line is sooo overused, it's becoming corny as hell.

Brate...
Belive it or not I used that line on this chick back in high school who was wearing a pink bandana way before i ever saw it on MASF...

Classics never go out of style!

 

[MindOverMatter]

haha, nisam znao da si iz Srbije

I'm sure the line works, anything that makes the look girl look like a brat works, but the fact I've seen it in almost every mASF field report really makes it corny in my eyes. It's probably the reason I stopped reading fastseduction, there is very little original material there anymore, everyone just copies the same old techniques over and over again.

 

[guittarjedi]

Thanks guys for responding. I value all of your opinions, even the ones I disagree with. I was able to pretty much hit the reset button on this entire situation by using playfullness, warmth and rapport. We are back to talking again and she is back to staring deeply into my eyes with a big smile on her face. I can barely describe the feeling of electricity coming from this girl's smile but I hope every one of you has gotten feelings like the ones I get when I'm around her.

This whole situation has taught me many valuable lessons. A year ago I didn't have anywhere near the skills to create any kind of relationship with a girl like this. Hopefully I'll be able to take it further. Either way I'm becoming a better player.