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    If only I knew then...

    Kailex, you are right on there man--- If I hadn't made some mistakes and been a foolish AFC, I would never be where I am now...and looking back I am so *LUCKY* I didn't marry one of those first LTRs and go through belated pain.... I have the tools to have a relationship that is right for...
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    Personal Revelation

    I feel you here. I honestly have better and worse days. Some days I don't give a sh!t entirely, but days where my confidence is waning can be difficult...but it's just like anything else, you're going to have weaker and stronger days in your progress...you just have to recognize your weak...
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    First Date Question

    Listen to this man here. You know, my female friend says if she bats her eye lashes twice, but once before a sip and once after, it means she's subconsciously horny and wants you, while if she blinks only once, she may just see you as a friend. ... MAN don't believe any of this...
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    Her Way

    "Dear User, Her Way requests you please snip your left testicle and place it in the mail to: Moses Brown PO Box 880556 San Diego, CA Our female participants are eager to sort through your testicles to find the one of their choosing! Guys -- it'll be quick and painless and well worth the...
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    Should I ignore my ex that I cheated on?

    Those last two posts are great ones. Dude I've pussballed back too...just stop stop yourself now you know better!!! Be strong man!
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    Repeat Business

    What do you mean by "MLTR?" -- mature long term relationship????? Also what do you mean by 'repeat business'? I think a lot of women don't want to settle down nearly as they once did -- in a lot of ways it was because at one time, having babies and a husband was a sign of 'making it' as a...
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    It's been 6 months of celibacy. My Mentality.

    I'm not sure he's trying to discredit evolution but more so trying to say a strong will may overpower say, his needs to go bang some slvt. To not sacrifice long-term needs for short, momentary rewards.
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    It's been 6 months of celibacy. My Mentality.

    I can't agree more with these words. Warrior -- stay true brother. You are the steaming ship. Don't let the leaches breach a hole in your vessel. Make your own needs priority #1. As that journey continues and you meet your successes, you will find greater quality women than those who...
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    Personal Revelation

    Well not really for all, but for myself at least. I just had a sort of mental break through. Reading threads about men losing frame and my own experiences losing frame makes me realize: "just grow some balls". Backbreaker hit on this well in some thread he wrote about 'why don't men have any...
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    Insights please

    Scaramouche...brother -- quite an interesting analogy...and there may be more truth in the above than anything I've heard in quite awhile...awesome. But don't we all have some fat and gristle?
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    Should I ignore my ex that I cheated on?

    ...well man, I don't know exactly if cheating is an issue for you in ANY relationship (which maybe it is)...but probably better to find a woman you don't want to cheat on...or a woman where you don't feel that need...
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    Should I ignore my ex that I cheated on?

    It sounds like she's trying to keep the dialogue going but your short responses are snuffing her out. From the dialogue above to me it seems like you are not very interested, not the other way around. IDK man do you think if you got back with her you would want to cheat again? Were there...
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    Should I ignore my ex that I cheated on?

    Interesting read. Really great read actually. OP -- don't go back man! If you were truly happy would you have cheated? Is this the best you think you can do for yourself in life? It's not! You're just going back because you haven't met someone better yet! You will! And you won't...
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    Talking to best friends ex girl after he dies

    She's looking for close male attention...she split with him before he passed..now he passed..her mind is messed up...careful man...dangerous territory, I don't think you're being selfish, I think you're being wise.
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    How should I approach this situation?

    Griever -- I think it's cool you're chatting up the ladies -- where are you picking these plates up at? Do you live in a larger area? Man -- EJECT outta that b-day invite -- my reasoning: You will have the heavy hand of many of her closest female friends there and your impressions on them will...
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    Insights please

    Look -- I may be out of my place in this discussion, I've never been married and I'm a good decade+ younger than you guys. But I would say -- if a woman is into you -- she shouldn't be out spending time with guys she used to fvck. I just don't think that's fair. Maybe if she had never had a...
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    Jariel's post on NC

    Dude it's because by keeping them in your life it is almost impossible to heal. It's like you have a wound and there is this shard of glass in there. It can't fvcking close up all the way until that glass is removed. Sure there may be a scar, but hey when it's still pried open it certainly can't...
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    Jariel's post on NC

    Brother, please understand that this stuff is not easy and there is no doubt your mind will keep dipping into the past, going back through 'what-if's', all sorts of things your mind will pull to re-highlight times you had -- I don't know why the brain does this -- maybe part of it is we are...
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    Frank ?? - Name of Beatnik-ish writer on subject of females?

    Confessions of an Actual Man Very Sincere Too October 25, 2011 Like a wolverine digging at a rabbit's hole, this column seeks truth, wherever it lies. (Of course, if truth lies, how can you trust it? These are deep waters.) To this end, I have been reading feminists about what slugs men are...
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    Jariel's post on NC

    But by then you'll probably be happier than you were when you were with her! At some point you'll be glad everything went on as it did and your life will be better! Stay positive -- know other women are ahead of you -- know you have tons and tons of experiences at your fingertips! Now is your...
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