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In my opinion you have low self worth - that will be your No. 1 problem. You don't see yourself as worthy - and your putting a number of issues/reasons on the table of WHY you can't get/keep/date a man. Chances are, you new your kid's father was abusive (or had those tendancies) before you...

So be it. Settling for 'Good enough' is not my design - and shouldn't be yours either. Rome wasn't built in a day.

Keep it short and sweet - arrange a meeting then get off of the phone. If the conversation get awkward or silent - chances are your on the phone for to long a time.

It a package deal Without boring you with the details - let's just say, I've been there. I'm not going to date another women with kids - having experienced it, I know from first hand, that taking on some of that responsibility does not make me, personally, feel good. I never felt good about...

I dealt with this for a long time before I finally woke up. The questions is just her validating herself - she wants the best of both worlds, and you, by talking to her on Chat, taking her calls and agreeing to meet her are just bowing down to her greater power. She knows she has you at her...

Brother, I don't understand. So this woman has 3 kids - thats a lot of baggage where I come from. Do you want to play daddy with someone else's sperm? I did it for a while - and it slowly ate me away - because deep down, I new I was raising someone else's seed - and not my own. Mummy and...

I did the same - I have a tear in my eye :) Stay strong brother.

Loving the freedom of being my own man again.... Yes, I left my drinking GF and moved on. She had stopped drinking for a long time, but then fell back into it - and it wasn't so much her drinking, but her hiding it and lieing about it - point blank to me. After I caught her doing it a...

No.

I'm right there with you - right woman, wrong time - for both of us. I don't feel the need for a full time woman - but there are times when it's good to share your life with someone...

they never are emotionally responsible - and there's your head again, raising the guilt. sometimes you just need to think with the little head as well.

so you feel guilty because you've been pre programmed that you just shouldn't pump and dump a chick. or do you feel icky because you don't care about her and are just putting up with her in order to get a nut? either way it's all in your head. Your not being deceitfull - and even if you...

yeah - I'm not the brightest bulb on the tree... I often wonder what the F I'm doing with my life....

can you explain....

I'm 36. I left the lid of the bbq open - slow cooking tri tip, I like the smell of it to linger - and apparently she thought that was 'nasty' - and the same other things - 'no one cooks *insert here* that way'....... I told here something sensitive about a family member of mine, and she...

I thinking as I write this, but I really feel stuck - stuck in a relationship that I don't know if I want anymore. I've been with her for 3.5 yrs, and although she is a good woman - she takes care of me very, very well, loves me to death and wants to marry me - I just don't know if I want to...

No one can make you happy for the long term. If your not happy with yourself and your surroundings, women nor money will make you happy. create your own life and environment, and the rest will, with hard work and commitment fall into place. happiness is an internal thing - and no amount...

I've been the best man several times (literally and figiratively) So here we go. 1) Listen to him b#tch as they argue over the slightest thing - she will turn into bridezilla - take him out for beers 2) organize the Bach. party - make sure he lives to tell the tail 3) Help out pre...

I have not posted in a while.... when I come back and visit, I understand why.

Great point. This is where I find myself now. It's inevitable that someone - or both - will get hurt. It's a very fine line to be able to continue seeing a chick and not getting involved - if you are not careful you can easily be 6 or 12 months down the line wondering how you got to that...