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Please don't practice on fat girls! If you get shut down you will feel like crap (-10 for confidence)! At least if a hot girl shoots you down you can still be happy because you gathered up the stones to try (+1 for your confidence).

I agree that doing big super romantic things on v-day is not always the best bet. My strategy this year, with a girl that Ive been out with about 5 times was a little different. Her and I were talking a few days before v-day and I said that I didnt get all the hype about v-day and such. She...

I would keep her as an acquaintance. Just talk every now and then to see how things are going. I would also date some other girls, and "explore yourself" as well. There is certainly the possibility that she won't come back as harsh as that thought may be. I wouldnt sit around and put all of your...

I had a lot of the same feelings in terms of wondering if I was still in love with my ex. I just eventually came to the realization that it is possible to love someone as a person without being in love with them. Just say to yourself "She was an awesome girl, and it was a great experience to...

I had a similar case just a little while ago. I didnt call her everyday, but I was with the same girl for 2.5yrs. We broke up on amazing terms because I was moving to another city and it didnt fit with her life to move. Breaking up on those terms is super tough and afterwards I really had to...

Can you give us a little more insight into how you asked her out, and how the past month has gone? It may help to provide a better answer.

I would ask her how old she is one day if you talk to her again. I wouldnt pass up the opportunity. Maybe she just turned 18? You never know...

I wouldnt stress on getting her as a "gf". Just enjoy some dates, play it casual and the gf status will come. If you start asking her to be your gf it takes some of the power out of your hands. Thats really how I play things these days. Just "date" a few girls, and eventually one will stand out...

"6. Ooze with interest Act as if he or she were the most important person in your world and nothing else matters at the moment. Ooze with the allure of your undivided attention, fascination, and interest in just them. "There is nothing sexier or more complimentary than someone who flirts...

What would you suggest saying if I call her? Should I give some sort of explanation, of just act completely normal and see if she brings it up?

Work at a pet store. My first job was in the aquarium department of a pet store bagging fish for people. Probably the easiest job ever and theres lots of hot girls looking at puppies.

I just stopped talking to her one day. I think I went out of town for the weekend and I just never called her or answered her calls when I returned. I didnt say anything mean to her, I just kind of "disappeared"..... I really dont even know why I did, I just wasnt really in a GF state of mind...

Alright, heres the setup: I went out with this girl about 4 months ago maybe 6 or 7 times over a couple months. In my opinion at the time it was just dating, but she wanted something more serious and I didnt really. I didnt handle it as I should have...... I didnt really handle it at all. I...

That sight is pretty crazy actually. It would be really interesting to see what would happen if you put one of them together with a DJ.

Just wondering if anyone else has tried this out yet? Im interested to hear how some other guys find the excercise.

Wow, its been a while since Ive seen this post, I think I put it up a couple years ago....... Ne ways, I still do this sometimes. I find its a great great way to aleviate the fear of rejection. This seems to happen because you're not in it for the girl, and you're purpose isnt to get dates...

I dont necessarily agree that #'s are a waste of time, it just depends on how you approached the initial contact when you got the #. I have had great success with setting up dates from #'s that I have gotten. Even ones from clubs have turned out to be worthwhile. Just last weekend I was at...

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Just stop thinking about it and go do it. The more you think about what you're doing when you dance the worse it looks. Thats why I always dance best when Ive had a couple beers because I stop thinking about every little move that I make. Another good way to get over the fear is to find a girl...

Thanks, that helps. It does sound like good advice. I know that my goals and future should not be changed by anyone and I will keep working towards them. :)