Something Every DJ must read!

[freedom_fighter777]

Every post I see her deals with how to get a girls number. I'm a pro at getting a girls numbers and guess what? It leads to no where. They always give me the line: can i call you back? to get off the phone etc. Or they just won't pick up. This has happened to me hundreds of times without getting one date! I'm convinced that getting a number in order to get laid or start a relationship is a inefficient method. I think its better to ask them out in person or try to do stuff with them in person, no set up plans over the phone. Yesterday was a perfect example, I asked two fine black chicks for their number they both said yeah, then I asked if they had a boyfriend and they said yeah. THis shows that number getting doesn't work.
One year ago I was like everyone else at this site has low self esteem and was afraid to talk to women (nice guy). After being treated like **** and taken advantage of, I am now a jerk and proud of it. I call women baby as much as possible and let them know right away that I wont take **** from anyone. In a case when I do get a number I'll be sure to tell them, "If you get lucky I'm call you." Or "if you play your cards right you might get laid." On my phone machine it says,"YOu reached joe. If your worth my time I'll call you back. bye." I have girls calling up saying "I hope im worth your time." In bars or clubs I am fair good at picking women with the help of advancedmacking.com. This is the best resourse I found about seducing women yet. I go to florida state and I have lots of girls in my classes. But I have a hard time doing stuff with them because I can't seem to set up plans out of class. I'll have a good convo with them and get their number and it will go no where. Does anyone have any tips on meeting girls in class? THis is a little food for thought and I care to hear what you guys think.

 

[CapiCrimini]

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After getting that out of my system I do agree numbers arn't everything. But it's not always as easy to set up a date then and there. Even if you do try and do that, it will get the same effect if they didn't like you in the first place and just wanted to get away. They can pretend they don't have thier planner or don't know because thier calender is at home so "why don't you just call me"[they can be truthful at times though]. Quick approachs really don't work if you do a couple senconds because they don't remember you all the time.

This is something that should be brought up to further examination, but for right now I'm busy, though I do agree, in a small way. Numbers arn't everything, although, they do play a part.

 

[rsxy]

I dont necessarily agree that #'s are a waste of time, it just depends on how you approached the initial contact when you got the #.

I have had great success with setting up dates from #'s that I have gotten. Even ones from clubs have turned out to be worthwhile.

Just last weekend I was at a local club. There was a group of 4 girls so me and one friend whent up and initiated convo. We talked for about 10 minutes about where they whent to school, what they were taking etc. We then whent and danced as a big group. Then me and my buddy kind of singled off the 2 best ones and applied some more game. While we were dancing I said make sure I remember to get you're # before you leave....... Later on when they took off, she gave me her # and a kiss.

Since then we've gotten together........ Its a pretty textbook case really.


THe point of this story anyways is that it all depends on how you approach the first meeting. If she likes you you'll get the date when you call. If you dont get the date, either she gave you her # because it was easier than saying no (girls generally dont like saying no in person, they would rather avoid it later), or you messed up on the first call and she decided from that that she didnt want a date....

 

[CapiCrimini]

THe point of this story anyways is that it all depends on how you approach the first meeting. If she likes you you'll get the date when you call. If you dont get the date, either she gave you her # because it was easier than saying no (girls generally dont like saying no in person, they would rather avoid it later), or you messed up on the first call and she decided from that that she didnt want a date....

Exactly what I said... I think that should answer this thread.

 

[Bonhomme]

It's all in context

There's getting a gal's # ... and there's getting a gal's number.

I'm not just being a smartass. What's important is the kind of vibe that's going on during the interaction. You might not like to hear this, but it's just something you learn to sense as you get more experienced. I get less numbers than I did before, but a far greater percentage lead to something.

When a gal's really into you, she'll be hoping you ask for her #, if she doesn't even give you her number without your having to ask (which does happen when there's a good enough vibe). I give them my # too, often. Sometimes the gal calls me first, typically 2 days after meeting (which gives a good idea as to what people generally expect).

I'm also not too big on waiting a very long time (greater than 3 days) to call. That gives them too much time to forget you. usually best to call 2 days after getting her #. That's what has worked best for me. Forget this "wait 5 days" nonsense. If you call and leave a message, THEN you can -- and should -- wait 5 days before calling again.

 

[thebsharp]

This is a very clever spam.

 

[CapiCrimini]

This is a very clever spam.

huh? I don't get it where's the Spam?