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Three marraiges have failed on this man and he thinks the *fatal* mistake in his third marriage was in not confronting his wife *after* she already fell out of love with him. The guy's an idiot. He hasn't a clue. And his threats of suicide and all are just control ploys borne out of real low...

Reasons these guys decided to marry the girl are summarized as: For the first guy mentioned, it was that she was nice to him; for the second guy, he's the jealous type; the third guy, well, he just hadn't seen a chick in months after sharing a submarine with a bunch of guys; the next guy...

>> He does TRY to break contact. she always comes back. He tries to move on. Then he "remembers all the good times">> Have him give equal time to remembering the bad times too. No person is 100% good nor 100% bad, but parts of both. he has to realize that this girl has those bad parts that...

Next her. Move on. She's already nexted you. Let's see now, you flirted a bit after work and then went for a walk, made out and took her home. Then you planned to buy bicycles together a couple of days later. Walking around all day looking at bicycles. More making out and then a bunch of...

>> You're doing everything a man can possibly do to be a ladies man.>> Let me give you some truisms here. These hold true for anything in life: This "I'm doing everything I possibly can" is always never true. You hear women say this all the time, The truth is, there's always still one thing...

She doesn't love/respect him. And who could, if he keeps coming whimpering back for more abuse? I'm not knocking him in writing this, the poor guy is way emotionally attached to this woman, a woman who mistreats him. Maybe he's got self-esteem issues, who knows? In talking to him, you have to...

A hot chick in NY actually ASKS a stranger if she left him enough room to park? She must be from way out of town. Like Canada. But seriously... My guess is that for her too, "rejection trumps regret" and she probably kicked herself that she wasn't more aggressive in the moment and let you slip...

I don't think she gave you her number to get rid of you, though women do that. Women also give out their number if they're bored and lonely and figure you'll take them out, and if nothing better comes along, then they may go out with you. Maybe something better came along. You have to ask...

>> The trick is to be nice by showing your prowess at something you excel at. >> The problem with her post and others like it, is that because of the low barrier to posting a blog, umpteen zillion basically inexperienced people have become self-assumed instant experts because of their one time...

>> I am so confused.>> It's not confusing... she's not interested in having this dialogue with you. My guess is: Between mid May and late June she found other guys to be with. Next time, don't put off a girl for a month and a half. Especially if she's anywhere near hot. Other guys will move in.

>> What is the quickest and most effective way >> There is no one thing because women can feign interest. You have to evaluate as you go along to determine their true motive.

I think what's not mentioned as a factor in that sex therapist's notes is the dynamics of the married couples' relationships outside of the bedroom. If hubby becomes a couch potato and gains a gut, emits noxious fumes after dinner nightly and/or mistreats wifey via disrespect, abuse or...

>> See, growing up, I was always used to having good-looking girls flock to me... >> This "back-in-the-day-it-was-different-for-me" sentiment is something you have to let go of to move forward, friend. Not that I'm saying you have to become a machine and cold approach everyone. I find doing an...

I make them wait.

It's interesting to note that Saturday Night Live currently does this spoof of cougars called "the Cougar Den" where they have three women done up as cougars and they're satirized. The point being, if Cougars weren't laughable, it wouldn't be funny. So in a way they're confirming that albeit...

>> Point is, I thought about deleting my myspace page a couple of times but realized there is no point. It doesn't cost me anything so why not leave it up? Apparently it was a good decision. >> The "good decision" actually seems to have been to send a bulletin, especially one about that you...

>> What most guys think are 'mixed messages' or confusing behavior coming from a woman is simply due to their inability (for whatever reason) to make an accurate interpretation of why she's behaving in such a manner. >> I'd say the reason usually is that what guys read as "mixed messages" are...

Okay, I'm going to give you my Mature Man's thinking: You make it sound like the goal is to score on the first date. Maybe it is for some guys. So when you talk about "it only has power to some guy who does not know how to handle his ****", I think guys who can't handle their d1cks are the ones...

This is why I seriously can not see the point of living with a chick any more. Maybe after I'm with her for five years and everything's still great, then maybe. When things go south, it's a bit more difficult to oust them. Anyway, when you prayed to God to get her out of your life I'm surprised...

Next her. She isn't that into you. You offered to do the right gentlemanly thing by walking her to her car. Any chick would go along with that, so why would she object? My guess is she wanted to avoid what would happen next, meaning, kissing you, which is what she saw happening if you walked...