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    The Answer to "Do You Own or Rent?" is "Goodbye".

    Backbreaker said something about women not appreciating you for what potential you hold but rather just look for what you have NOW. These women whom you've been inviting over are short-sighted. Does this have something to do with the types of women you are choosing? Would you say you after...
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    Mechanics of plate-spinning

    Man I am not an avid juggler, but the jist is : (1) ensure your plates do not cross paths -- diversify. (2) any dates you want are valid--man it's whatever YOU would like to do with them (they they will enjoy also) (3) kisses & f-closes -- this is your call also man, if you want to kiss em go...
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    NICE! Finally had some sucess this weekend.

    Email isn't always terrible..a way to get a convo going to build rapport.. Dude, keep at it! Rejection is just a part of it. Don't let it be your sum-all!
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    journal to personal enlightenment

    There are bigger fish to fry. Following passions, following hobbies, finding things that really matter and driving towards them full-speed. Life is precious and fragile and not long lasting although it may seem so. There is no real time to sit and chase women around--the real truth must be to...
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    SS is bad for me

    I read the blog post. Fundamentally I agree with the notion that some women will 'steadily erode' a man with a 'stream' of nitpickings and nagging. Certainly some men have handed over their balls. Rollo, I do agree that at first its a concession to 'keep the peace', but over days/weeks/months...
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    Mistress and Wife

    There must something missing at home. These men married the wrong women or married for the wrong reasons. I don't understand why all the effort you put into cheating you wouldn't instead try and funnel into your relationship. When was the last time you took your wife out on a 'date' or did...
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    Hi, new here, old guy

    Brotha, I hear your financial pain. Hang in there. I understand first-hand how this can vaccumm suck from your successes and make you feel lowly and crappy. It sucks having no money, and thus no options. I'm sorry you're not able to live in Amsterdam where you like. Are you sure there's not a...
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    journal to personal enlightenment

    What the hell is with this one-itis stuff? Where does this come from? Clearly, the genuine desire to care about another person exists, or we wouldn't have this one-itis stuff. To some degree that could be biologically wired--to care about others, men, women, children, etc, etc--but every once...
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    Why am I so angry all the time ???

    typical -- I can entirely relate to you. In fact I can relate to what a lot of posters have said. I too have had to work with anger issues, most importantly I know when I'm slamming weights around, etc and my T is high that I'm more volatile. I have to work to keep it chill, and generally I am...
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    Body Image Sh1t. Would value Perspectives.

    There's value in all of these perspectives. Let's be honest, a bit of loose skin around the abdomen, in the 'grand scheme of things' isn't such a big deal. I could have lost my mobility in a car wreck, or have serious burn scars, etc, etc -- clearly, this is 'small cookies' by comparison. But...
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    Body Image Sh1t. Would value Perspectives.

    Get rid of that tooth and get yourself a new set! What about just getting them ALL removed and getting the fake ones? My grandmother had this done at age 22 and nobody ever knew. She has really bad gums. The fake teeth removed her from the pain. Some of the advancements man I bet you could have...
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    Body Image Sh1t. Would value Perspectives.

    As I said, I know it's worse in my head, but when you've put in as many hours as myself it can be discouraging when you can't ever have the abs that you really want -- there's a difference between bishing and moaning, but this aspect of my skin I am unable to change unless I likely gain 10-20lbs...
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    She is changing!

    John, give this a read: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/08/14/relationship-game-week-a-readers-journey/ I'm not a huge fan of this guy, but this article has some truth.
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    She is changing!

    See..so again, being needy, begging, etc, all of this clearly turns the woman's vjay into a sealed locked box, and there goes her heart too. Maybe she's also not very mature, etc. It is hard to go 'backwards' to where you once were. When momentum drops off entirely, or certain things take...
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    Hi, new here, old guy

    Sometimes man, we just have to go through whatever cycles in life there are until we really grab it by the balls and start to steer. Ok, so you haven't been driving the last years. Well, you're behind the wheel now. Where do you want to go? Have faith, start slow--change comes with time and...
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    She is changing!

    Any girl who is risking her own suicide, you have to ask, "is this really the best girlfriend I can get?". That's what I'm saying here--whatever the circumstances were in her threats of suicide...and people can be dramatic and say all sorts of sh1t so it's possible she was just throwing out...
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    Body Image Sh1t. Would value Perspectives.

    Disgustipated, drak_ool and BB -- Thank you for your responses. Let me clarify a few things: I am not 150lbs right now. That was the skinny-fat change, thus the loose skin. Disgustipated, your advice to gain muscle is exactly what I've been doing the last 5 years. I've gone from 150 -> 195lbs...
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    Wife is pissing me off for the first time after a year

    The weirdest thing I've ever seen anyone eat on MJ was some random gatherings from the kitchen. Some crazy people use MJ too, just like a mentally sick man might drink alcohol and take tylenol..doesn't mean those drugs are WHY he is crazy..he's just CRAZY ALREADY using those drugs...crazy man...
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    Why the F*ck are you having problems with women?

    g0ddamn you all (backbreaker, mr positive, pairsroyal, collusus) hit this **** on the head -- SOLID RESPONSES I WOULD REP YOU ALL. Mental masturbation! I'm guilty of it bros! I over-analyze damn near everything because I'm all intellectual and cerebreal and ****! Double-edged sword! Life is...
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    Body Image Sh1t. Would value Perspectives.

    Update: I did go and get a consultation. Man this whole thing just turns me off so much, I hate looking at these surgical pictures it gives me the heebie jeebies and the notion of getting all cut up and 5h1t sort of makes me feel ill. I did see a pretty awesome plastic surgeon, but his fees...
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