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    Welcome to beta land..

    This is awesome! How I would like to be minus losing half-of-my-sh1t. OP -- Brotha, I see this sh1t already at age 27. Most of my friends whom I've known a long time are already getting married, having babies, in very serious LTRS and putting down the 'framework' to buckle-down the next X...
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    What do you think about this obnoxious photo for a single mommy?

    I'm not sure all single mothers expect a man to take care of their kid -- especially depending upon how old the kid is. If it's a 2-month old and she's looking for a man, sure watch out, but I've seen some older women with kids who are 12, 13 -- had bad marriages and were truly looking for...
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    journal to personal enlightenment

    One day at a time is all we really have--thinking too far ahead or lingering in the past doesn't help much. Today is now and now is this moment and this moment is mine and I'm awake. Word. Awake and alive and focused and trying to find that special niche I know that I am capable of creating...
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    You're biggest fvck up with a chick.

    lol that would have been smart man...i shoulda said SOMETHING even a joke..i just was so embarassed got red in the face... It was one of those farts too that LINGERED..i was thinking 'dear god just go away already!!!' LOL .....blehhhhhhhhh I don't have gas problems lady! I swear! :eek...
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    Beta's gonna Beta (Rollo is gonna love this)

    Barf................ I am sure some people cheat in times of weakness...and regret it...I have seen some people be cheated on and bring back the bish and they 'work through it' and say they are 'happier than ever'... In my mind, there are is pleny that could be done before cheating occurs...
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    You're biggest fvck up with a chick.

    How about 2 nights ago I was in a small closed in 'silo' that this chick wanted to show me -- 'a secret place' she said. Well we crawl into this little silo and have our legs wrapped... Now she had suggested this, our meeting was not planned, I cannot sechs this girl. But dude-- I FARTED IN...
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    the "attacher"

    Not good when suddenly you're taking care of all of her problems...is the vagina worth X hours of physical labor moving furniture and dealing with leases....maybe it's true love? :/ ps, some of these girls really have no self-identity...they have no sense of themselves, self-value...they latch...
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    A question on creating - and balancing - competition anxiety

    I don't think smart women like this as much as the manosphere states. You really want to keep caffeinating her hampster and mentally mind fvcking her? Is that love or is that twisted sh1t? I think ultimately, a girl wants to know you have high value -- if she left you, likely some other woman...
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    So this was my day

    Let your gears calm down my brotha -- people can be hard to deal with, mothers especially, I am sure she means well (she may never really understand where you are coming from--but recognize she probably does mean well). Sometimes it can feel like all people are against us. Be the eye in the...
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    Being a Romantic Beta to the core!

    I don't want to sound like the chanting chorus here elsewhere on this board, but have you considered weight lifting at all? Not just to be 'big' but really it does help increase your natural production of testosterone -- and it forces you to fight miniature battles with 'yourself' and...
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    Being a Romantic Beta to the core!

    I hear you man -- not trying to drag down your thread. I'm just saying getting all testosterone intense doesn't always help things (I have learned this the hard way). I've found a good way to make friends is to start getting into things you think are cool, and sharing them with people in an...
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    Being a Romantic Beta to the core!

    The notion of alpha and beta on this site is ridiculous...you want to gather your pack and be like some wolves? What are you going to do with your pack? How are you going to keep em in line? What are you going to offer them? Why not instead focus on developing yourself into a full person...
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    Mistress and Wife

    ps, the chorus on this website in regards to a cheating woman is 'shes a slvt!! NEXT' -- the chorus for men cheating is 'be secretive' Cognitive dissonance -- that exists in threads interwoven into this place fully.
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    Mistress and Wife

    I don't understand how u dudes don't see that cheating when expressed exclusivity has been stated isn't 'cool'. Why express exclusivity then? Women cheat for emotions and men cheat for sechs is bull because even the OP here is already emotionally entangled. All blacks like watermelon...
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    Mechanics of plate-spinning

    7K, 30miles of isolation to the next city...and it's not exactly filled with super models...if you dig chicks with big trucks and tweety bird shirts you're in business tho!
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    Female Cognitive Dissonance.

    Man this is why sh1t is so fvcked is because BOTH SIDES are playing by rules that WHO wrote? I'm not snuffing my nose at some basic biological aspects of attraction -- but some of this COMPLEX MENTAL sh1t absolutely has got to be a mind fvck. Women read these trash Cosmo magazines and then we...
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    Female Cognitive Dissonance.

    I also agree that the dialogue "all women do this" is just like "all blacks do this" "all hispanics are this way" "all white people only do this" which is of course GENERALIZATIONS. Look--men are EASY too aren't they? How many of you go to the sack right away?
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    Female Cognitive Dissonance.

    Despite my last post I also agree with this here -- I do think gender roles can be quite USEFUL. In the uber-androgynous society where we are all 'people' and not acknowledged for our biological wirings is somewhat naive.. We didn't make it 350,000 years of evolution as 'Pat' from...
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    Female Cognitive Dissonance.

    ^ I agree with this. The 'natural hypergamy' thing is really, in the biologic kingdom BS. We all have this sort of 'caveman' analogy in our minds -- what people fail to realize is the CAVEMAN WASN'T HOMO SAPIEN SAPIEN! It was homo erectus! Hmm...are we really like homo erectus...is THIS the...
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    NICE! Finally had some sucess this weekend.

    PIMP's advice is SOLID and that was kind of him to take the time to write so much. I enjoyed reading that Pimp-sicle, thanks man. Brother, it has been a struggle for me too--it is a process, and old habits die hard, but you can create new ones. Remember that failure can be success--because we...
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