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Interesting replies to this thread. I don't agree with everything in there either. I was just noticing how my whole view of things was really becoming sour and it was pushing people away and I really couldn't believe some of the sh!t I was saying (when I really sat and thought about some of...

Thanks Rollo for this post. I identify and believe there's a lot of truth to it. Man it ain't easy learning the hard way!

What a condescending cvnt. "you'll find your match"... Dude delete this number go NC this one is vile and evil

This is a complex subject for me my man. I've done LSD only 2x but have had my share of mushrooms more than I can count (they grew wild on a farm I worked at and out here in Washington state lots of folks know how to pick them). I've had some bad trips for sure, where the mind is at its...

OP this thread is music to my ears because literally the last year I was one bitter - @ss mutha****ah and I've passed up women and things because I was angry frustrated thought they were all a waste of time. I'm not saying I'm on easy street now. But I will say it has taken me some serious time...

OP -- I've been there bro! What you can have you don't want! Once it's gone you want it again! By then they've often changed shades! It sucks man! Hind-sight is 20/20 but always remember there was a reason in the moment you didn't pull the trigger! You can second guess yourself! But maybe you...

Texting = dangerous grounds all around even in friendships. Learning the hard way. Technology makes impulsiveness easy and accessible (like this message, eh?). (I agree with OP -- general fun statements everyone loves -- questions nagging stuff never gets a response!) (we want people to smile...

I've smoked pot daily for 10+ years and honestly I feel good health wise but sometimes when I'm really blazed I stop caring about all the superficial bull****. I think if you are looking to go alpha it out you are going to hit some hurdles with marijuana. Marijuana is going to stifle your ego...

Those roissy followers -- just read this: DON’T BE LAME. If a 19 year old (true story) offers you an E tab in a dark corner of a loud club at 1 am, don’t refuse her like some boring fuddy duddy. Either pop that baby and enjoy the ride, or pretend to take it and throw it away when she’s not...

Generally speaking, I was so bitter with women it was evident--and there may be a slight tinge still in there--but this article below really has some great things to say about losing bitterness and why this should be your goal (and something you will have to actively work at). I sure know...

Hang in there bud...this too will pass...you'll be writing something about some new hottie soon enough :)

Hang in there man -- we make mistakes -- maybe you were not ready to settle in the ways you now, in this moment of retrospect, think that you were. Keep looking ahead--don't focus backwards--keep looking forwards--forge the future you wish.

I think the gina tingles can wear off...the wafflehouse cook may have seemed like a good deal..but a few months down the line she'll see her future with him..may not seem so appealing. I wouldn't be too hard on yourself man. If it was a strictly game of logic, things wouldn't be as complex as...

I moved back to the Seattle area. I was tired of the endless isolation I was experiencing in the small mountain town I was in. I have much work to do still with women. I know that I am attractive. I know I have a lot of potential. I feel with the next 10 years I'll be an even greater man. I...

I hear you man--but do you know what I'm trying to say here? Why the covert jargon--why not just be upfront--what is it about the elaborate game that stimulates people's 'sexuality' that matter-of-factness wouldn't? Her comment at the time totally went over my head. Unfortunately this happens...

What a bunch of dumb b.tches. How big were their tits? These are just shallow wh0reish women who just want some fvcking rod up their vaginas...stupid vessels of nonsense is their brains. The fact she's cutting him down like that is terribly low--especially after SHE fcvked him... Well..I'd...

I am sure there are women who have been in the same shoes--unfortunately this is a place where MEN come to vent so we only get that side of the human mind, but there are no doubt women who love some pretty VILE dudes. I have felt the same thing before--that I have loved a woman far more...

Don't beat yourself up man--we all falter...perfection ain't of this world...if anything you should feel re-assured there's nothing there with her anyway...if you WANTED something more with her, well now you have the option to be in control of the new frame..but sounds like maybe you're better...

thehunter -- I think if this girl was really into you from day #1 she would have been down with the carpet picnic. I know for some that may be too cheesy, but I think a lot of girls would really like this idea -- it was "sweet" of you, and her wanting to divert things to some sh1tty bar just...

Brother, I can relate to this thread. I worked in a fancy environmental non-profit with these eco babes, many of whom I thought had more self respect--but absolutely I have seen behavior that doesn't reflect any sense of commitment or decency. Our culture is steeped in a mantra of...