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There's a new statistic that says the average video game player isn't a 21 year old dude living in his parents basement, or even a fairly-well adjusted 18-35 year old male who plays video games a few hours a week... ... Nope, the average video game player is a mid-20s female! Of course...

I agree mostly with the OP but I don't think in my earlier years at this, I picked up on the more subtle IOIs. A girl opening you is too blatant, a girl staring at you and smiling is obvious. But before I actually started approaching hard regardless of initial feedback or invitation, I...

I think this can work with social circle game or in a college setting but probably not in cold approach, man. You'll be forgotten too fast. If you're in the same social circle, often the game is played much more slowly and as long as you're sexual and busting her balls, you won't fall into...

Indifference is very powerful. I'm a guy who always used to take himself and others far too seriously. Now I only give as much as another person gives me. The bar has been lowered -- to human terms -- and rather than feeling a letdown, I like people more and relate to them much better. The...

Slow clap with the whole foods one. She was more of my type. Was impressed with how you kept mining the whole "I stole your cart" thing. You really made full use of that. Only in L.A. do they have a lounge in a grocery store. This place is strange haha. Keep up the good work

Looks matter for sure and it's true what a lot have said about women dating up and dudes dating down. I'd say this is doubly-true when you're gaming outside of your race. The good news is that clothes make a huge difference. I think people really underestimate the importance of style. Even...

You've got jokes man. :crackup:

Out in Cali, I've seen Asian Men with white women. I know two Asian dudes who are super extroverted and they've pulled some white women that any guy would want. Also, there's sort of the nerdy-cute white girl that I as a black guy have a hard time attracting -- just because they assume a black...

You sound like I used to be, especially as it also carrying over to other realms where you feel like you're on stage being judged-- i.e. basketball. I'm no MJ, but I've got a decent shot. In middle school I was known as the sharpshooter on our team. I remember once when I got fouled and had to...

You're flip-flopping more than... [your least favorite politician] Sounds like you're being sucked into her unstable frame. Relax and commit to what you say you're going to do!

You gave away the game. ... so it's probably game over. The deeper I get into this, I realize that it's not black and white like I first thought. Women -- while more perceptive and socially savvy than guys-- can't pick up everything. They're NOT all knowing or all judging. But there are...

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^^^^ This. I get what BadNews is saying. After my 18th, birthdays weren't so much of a big deal. No big fanfare. Just a casual get together with friends. But being sentimental is the very thing girls are supposed to be. Whenever I've been with a girl around my birthday and I'm being all casual...

You were right.

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WHOA! Dramatic, much? This is the epitome of AFC.

From experience back in college, had one girl who acted like this. I think you're doing the right thing making things casual, inviting her out during class, or trying to bounce straight from class to the dining hall or cafe. That usually works. Dating in college ought to be casual. HOWEVER, for...

Dress better. If I dress OK I can get with 7-7.5s If I dress my best I can get the top tier. Also look for signals. Could be as obvious as a girl asking me if I want some gum while dancing with her (lol, this happened recently in Vegas) or eye-contact, brushing against you and being in close...

In my experience, they were more straightforward as far as verbalizing their feelings and taking the lead on certain things (meet ups, BUYING ME DRINKS etc) but not so much on banter/flirtation. As such, I found it a bit harder to escalate because I wasn't getting the normal feedback I would. (I...

Don't respond to that text at all. Notice how her text is a bit of a non sequitur in that it doesn't really address what she did "wrong" (not call you when she got back home), nor does it justify it with an excuse -- fake or not (my phone died, been really busy etc). Instead "I want you to...