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And what you just said is true. So the question remains... what's the problem? I'm also Christian. I also want a girl that has similar beliefs. The Bible does not necessarily condemn a relationship with a woman of different religious preferences. What it does do is give warning against it...

I'm still kind of living it. It's been a year now, or a little more, and while I'm FINALLY not necessarily pining away for the person (due more to AFC tendencies, lack of knowledge, etc), I still kind of find myself displaced. Granted, I've just finished up school after six years of it, etc...

When I first came here, I was in a desperate state, as many people seem to be when they post here. You talk to family and friends occasionally about what's going through your head, but usually you get dunderhead answers, or answers that come from people who've done about as much "study" or...

This entire passage confused me, and I could have sworn I've read similar threads like this that were created by you. Stop with the MySpace thing. It keeps you attached to the person, even if you like to pretend that it doesn't. So let that stuff go. Besides which, they probably KNOW that...

I've read somewhat differently over at mASF (yeah, I've been reading waay too much these days. I've finished my studies finally, and am preparing to go into the real world, but I need to stop being so damn academic). There's a guy that posts there a lot who claims that he was completely AFC...

So wait. Don't date a girl until she's dated several men? A woman can't have any realistic relational skills until she's destroyed the psyche's of ten other guys first? :) Just an honest inquiry here. And on the other hand, I guess I would be one of those "been in one LTR with one person...

I've read a lot of the stuff he put up. It's very sound stuff. On him failing to succeed in a mall. Eh, it's a mall. My cousin, who's also got a bit of natural game, did approaches in the mall as well while I was with him (I wasn't attempting to sarge with him). He crashed and burned the...

My view point on it is that love CAN be unconditional. We're just lumping the kinds of "love" into one title, when it would be much easier if we had a better word for such a concept. But we don't. For instance, someone else already mentioned that you can love someone despite turning them...

I have to confess that in this case, I'm also guilty of the one-itis trap for the ex-fiancee. I have to continually remind myself to stop "checking up" on what she's doing or saying. On the other hand, this site has worked WONDERS in terms of understanding how male/female interaction works...

Someone mentioned something about military training being the most effective. Short answer: No. Longer answer: The military trains you to fight in a specific manner, like any martial art system. It's the reason why even fighting luminaries like Miyamoto Musashi always encouraged...

I think this is just one aspect of finding a good partner. While it's a definite plus in a number of departments, no amount of confidence, self-esteem, and good looks will make up for a bad attitude, a penchant for misunderstanding their partners, or selfishness that goes unchecked or...

I'm not going to pretend to be one of the experts, but I'll try to weigh in based on what I've been learning and read. Here are my thoughts: 1.) This woman lives an hour away from you and hardly knows you. I know we're supposed to get out there and take chances... but for one woman you...

There are very few people that really desire a life of solitude. Basically, if you're on this website, chances are that you're not looking for the solo life at all, unless you're: A) Been through multiple relationships that have all ended for some reason, whether bizarre or normal, and are...

When my ex suddenly contacted me for a reason other than getting her portions of the rent payments, I was startled. I was like, "Oh wow, maybe she doesn't resent me. I'll go visit her then and we'll talk. This should be great!" Cue a conversation that essentially consisted of her telling me...

Interestingly enough, even some religious perspectives admit that the touch and feel of a woman can lead men away from their particular views. Being a Christian myself, I can only speak from the point of view I know, but to give an example: There are numerous examples in the Old Testament in...

Please, don't do this. Just don't. I moved in with my ex. It was her suggestion. Fortunately we were renting. Then she decided that I sucked. And she hates me today. The most i did to her... I sucked too much. Essentially, I got a verbal and public tongue-lashing of epic proportions...

erm... are you sure she does this just because she's a little overweight or has low self-esteem. There really are girls out there that don't necessarily subscribe to the "I should fulfill all of my wildest fanatasies or desires without hesitation," regardless of appearance.

No, don't give her any time at all. Fact of the matter is, she's doing two things: 1.) Absolve herself of guilt. By confessing her sins to you, she is looking to get rid of her guilt. Confession is a good thing, but her motives are entirely selfish. She's not really asking for your...

As a Christian myself, I'll weigh in as well. The prohibition has nothing to do with hard-core Christians being "prude" (and believe me, not all of us "prude" in that sense), but rather because of incompatibility. It'll seem like it's some kind of "weird religious type thing" when in reality...

Yikes. This turned into a Bible debate thread. I personally believe in it as well, and try my best to follow it. But that's besides the point. Moving forward. Don Ronny. I have to say, this is what I'm reading from you: 1.) You see girl. You move in, put on the DJ moves. She...