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So CordonCordon called it. Just got this text message from her tonight: HB: "fyi..i still have no idea how u are blocked,i cant figure out how to add u?...im sorry still about that.... i just tried to add u..but u dont even.come up in my search" My reply: "Not sure... Just sent you a...

So I've been no contact since Thursday. I was always good to this girl (likely why her interest level dropped so quickly). Seems like I have become demonized solely because I beat her to the punch with the breakup. Last night I got the following text (in reference to a lingere pic and a...

Another update: She sent a Facebook message to 3 of our mutual friends, including a married couple who are friends of mine and who she has only met once, stating: "Just wanted to let you guys know that [Bacchus] broke up with me by email. I hope this doesn't impact on our friendship" We are...

A complicating factor is we have a mutual female friend who hooked us up, who I really respect. I know that when my now-ex has a girl gab session to talk about what happened between us, she is going to paint me as being an insensitive a$$hole by focusing on the fact that I broke up with her 1)...

Jesus Christ. I am such a fvcking AFC. She called again, and I did EXACTLY what Die Hard said not to do, almost verbatim lol. Then I read his post and wanted to b1tch slap myself. Sad thing is, I used to be awesome with women, an alpha in every sense of the word, about 8 years ago when I was...

Update: So this morning, when I went to check her facebook page again, I couldn't... I had been deleted! So I thought **** it, might as well throw the first strike, and I went ahead and sent her a similar version of cordoncordon's breakup letter via email. She then sent me texts telling...

We haven't broken up!!

Update: So I haven't taken any action yet, but this morning, at 1am on Facebook, she posted the following on her wall, for all (including our mutual friends that know we are seeing each other) to see: "One day, someone will walk into your life and make you see why it never worked out with...

First off, you are the man for taking the time to write this out. So is everyone else that has commented. This is one of the few places out there where anyone gives a **** about another man's problems. If I send her a version of this email, do you foresee hardcore hovering on her part? And...

Thanks so much for all the feedback guys... you have given me a lot of food for thought, and my next move is not one that I will be taking lightly! She is in therapy right now and has been told that she has "Abandonment Lifetrap" - some overlap with BPD, but not the same thing (I have done a...

Atam, thanks for your reply. I briefly considered BPD, but I think in her case it is just straight abandonment issues. She doesn't have the rage or promiscuity components... she is just sad and scared. I also personally know one of her ex boyfriends from 5 years ago (he is now married with...

So I met this girl back at the beginning of November. When we met, she had just broken up with her live-in boyfriend of two years at the end of August, and it was a messy break-up (she found that girls had been texting him naked pictures of themselves, he was staying out all night drinking...

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Dude, I knew after your first post that this chick was a flake. I can't believe you talked to her AGAIN after she flaked for a second time. It was obvious those stories were BS. I was laughing to myself while I followed this thread, because I KNEW that she'd stand you up a third time. I felt it...

If I was just looking for a lay, you'd be right, it'd be good luck. I wouldn't mind settling down with a good girl for awhile though, and I think she was a good girl (even though she fuked me so soon). Playing the field wears a man out after awhile...

I rarely come across women that I consider to be HB10s. Maybe once a month. Well, I had one in my grasp and I let her go, because my game was a little too tight. I’ll explain: It started at a local pub, college hangout type place. I saw her from across the room; she was the most beautiful...

I've been seeing this girl for a little over a month, and lately her ex-boyfriend has become a real pain in the as$. They agreed to "remain friends" and keep in touch from time to time. He's a huge AFC though, and has whined since he found out she started seeing me. Recently, he's been saying...

Dude, that would be beyond pathetic. You're sounding like an AFC, snap out of it!

I've already fvcked her dude. I see her all the time.

Her: You going hot tubbing tonight? (I have a hot tub outside at my place) Me: You kidding? It’s hotter than hell outside. Her: oh.. my bad. I thought you were tough. I thought you were a man. Lately this girl I’m working on is always making jokes to “qualify” my manhood. I usually...