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    the id vs the ego: why do we control ourselves so much?

    You would have been much better off saying that the most memorable ppl indeed are the ones who ACT naturally. PPL live their everyday lives as a reaction of something goign on around them-hence the interpretation of life itself as a "consequence" (note: reaction) of the actions taken around...
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    My gf is a sexual dud

    oh yeah-one word ****ORIS
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    My gf is a sexual dud

    HOLY SHYT. If we werent so far apart, id swear we were dating the same girl! a) strict catholic parents-check b)religious (quasi)-check c)parents think shes a virgin-check d) says shes never masturbated before-check strange..strange..
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    I cheated on my GF, advice needed.

    youre at a cross roads. Im big time against cheating..but lest review some of the facts here. It was really only a kiss, you didnt fvck her. You stopped because you realized what you did was wrong, not only that, but you realized how much you dig your girl.. Thats enough for me to say...
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    is confidence really all you need?

    ok, funny thing I have a friend..from croatia..wicked guy. But thats besides the point. He has a HUGE nose, is probbaly 5'11, around 135-140lbs..but is the snarkiest, most "no-shame" I dont give a **** kind of guy out there. Hes not hideous, but hes not your typical "looker" either..he...
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    What is it exactly that is destroying my LTR?

    cesare-point taken His age actually means nothing to me, and his age is definitely NOT the reason why I have an issue (albeit small) with him. But focus more on the second part of the phrase, and thats "fool". I think he's a fool..but thats besdides the point. He mentioned he probbaly wouldnt...
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    What is it exactly that is destroying my LTR?

    LOL. I guess what comes around goes around JB. I told you you would be back here posting this. Yes this is the 2000's and men do not have be sitting there waiting like a woman for reciprocity to occur. You also missed my point. I too believe in reciprocation. I just believe in men being...
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    What is it exactly that is destroying my LTR?

    ez-1st. You must not really know my "history" with PS. Dont slam me for "slamming him". If it was genuine advice, given politely and with full respect, I would listen to it. The fact that it comes across as arrogant, rude and in many ways completely incoherent, is my justification for shunning...
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    What is it exactly that is destroying my LTR?

    to player supreme- you never fail to surprise me. If you never read my post, dont bother "offering a hand"..the last thing this thread (or forum for that matter) is a walking cliche who's sole purpose in his "e-life" is to strut around, talking, acting and trying to convince everyone else of...
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    What is it exactly that is destroying my LTR?

    to excel- I did mention, ultimatums are not my style. What I meant by heart to heart talk is just to finally cut through all the bullshyt and find a medium that both us can enjoy. This directly enatilas finding out if for once and for all, she can deal with what I did. Like I said, shell be...
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    What is it exactly that is destroying my LTR?

    Holy shyt dude.. Cyrano, you are the man. I believe you went through almost EXACTLY what I'm goign through now.. Some questions though..The trust and abandonment issues you mentioned she is incurring right now..In your opinion, how will she deal with these? Can I expect her to become more...
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    What is it exactly that is destroying my LTR?

    Oh no, I'm disappointed you're back (were you ever gone?) Listen, black. Besides posting some good advice A LONG time ago for the newb virgins here to read, I never really appreciated your ideals relating to my circumstances. Everyone here who has posted a reply has not mentioned anything...
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    What is it exactly that is destroying my LTR?

    Hey Slick, liek Ive mentioned before, no love lost. Lets move ahead. Know what? I did take youra dvice and I did take a step away and look at things objectively and I still think I'm not a boring person and I don't allow for something liek boredom to kill my relationships. Get what you put in...
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    What is it exactly that is destroying my LTR?

    Hey PRL-Youre right, this could easily be a compatibility probelm..but its something I dont want to admit because we seem to really like eachother. To blow off something as good as my LTR due to something like "We just wetren't compatible"...UGGGGH. It makes me crazy. Although I do realize this...
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