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    Need a few ideas for making things more 'fun'...

    That is exactly what I'm talking about! IMO, being amazing with women requires you to master the internal as well as the external. It's the combination of these two things that makes you irresistible. By internal, I mean you have to learn to respect yourself and have confidence. This is...
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    Need a few ideas for making things more 'fun'...

    Ronin, Another way to interpret challenge and mystery in my opinion anyways is not only to be "unavailabe" to talk or see eachother. That was the 1st type of challeneg and mystery I mentioned. Of course you can be that guy by actually having a life, like I also mentioned before. But...
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    Need a few ideas for making things more 'fun'...

    Hey Ronin, From my point of view, you can really do 2 things to make a relationship fun again. Challenge/Mystery-Challenge is necessary in a relationship. But its not what many ppl perceiveiy to actually be. It's not about playing games and "acting" to not see her/care about her. It's...
  4. J

    Crash'n & Burning Sucks

    top dog, what happened exactly with your chcik?
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    Would u take yourself out of a r-ship if you felt you werent ready?

    For your last questions, I came to this site just to learn how to pick up girls when i was 18-19 or so. That was it. Now, at 22, im in a relationhip, which may or may not last and so being A MAN in this realm poses its own challenges. The notion of being a DJ doesnt change much. Your mindset...
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    Would u take yourself out of a r-ship if you felt you werent ready?

    interesting. So you took yourself out of it then as means of saying basically "I'm goign to fukk this relationship up sooner or later anyways, might as well do it now"? or did u just suck if up and hope she didnt notice?
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    Would u take yourself out of a r-ship if you felt you werent ready?

    This is in relation to MOTU's posts about his breakup. If you felt very needy, insecure, jealous and acting just not like your "usual" self, would you take yourself out of it? Would you take the risk of losing someone you really care for in order to deal with some your own deeps seated issues...
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    How to know if you can really trust your girl

    dog, you either trust her or you don't. If you want to be with her, then you have to trust her. Like I mentioned before, dont be oblivious to relaity however. You don't want to be a stalker or some guy who is watching her everymove. You'll just kill yourself. But like in any relationship...
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    Girl got punished for her games. haha

    Blitz, I like your style. I mean, out of the whole board, you're for sure top 5% in terms of knowing what they're talking about. But sometimes I get the impression you just think too damn much. So what, this guys hacked her email. He MAY have or MAY HAVE NOT done so because of a bruised...
  10. J

    Improving social skills

    ****, this is why I love this site :D :D :D :D ;)
  11. J

    How to know if you can really trust your girl

    my replies are ALWAYS the last ones until the thread itself is tossed into "2nd page oblivion" hell yeah I'm whining. Who else has anything good to say??
  12. J

    How to know if you can really trust your girl

    I'm young, but I was having problems with jealousy mostly with my crazy ex gf and a little with my current gf, when I knew deep down there was no realisatic foundation to back any of my fantasies up. I talked to my bro about it. Hes older, and has a shyt load of experience with girls. He told...
  13. J

    Do you constantly rate yourself against other guys and girls?

    everything said here is true. I would never say full blown comparing yourself to other guys is ever healthy. You need some more self confidence and a healthy dose of reality. Yes, there'll ALWAYS be guys whol look better than you, but you HAVE to maximize that which has been given to you...
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