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yeah, seeing them everyday, knowing them..that would bother the hell out of me. I agree that if you get past this, this would be a good sign that you have very good control over yourself.

Not a bad post overall, but I think the sentence above kinda kills it. Peace.

what Johnny (can we speak on such casual terms?);) is saying about the whole "dont worry because youre not going to get married" is an approach I used to take on jealousy, whether in instances similar to this one, or other ones. In a way, the thought process is cporrect..why waste your time...

classic battle between "How I ought to feel" VS. "The way I truly feel" Deep down, you know you shouldnt dump this chcik based on her past. If youre looking for the reasons why, do a search: The reason are numerous and definitely outweigh the pros for dumping the chick because...

"with your supposedly intellect'' "with your supposedly intellect" "with your supposedly intellect" Ease up with that condescension and arrogance big guy. The irony your whole persona entails speaks for itself, I think. ;) :confused: ;)

another point to mention...adding to this jealousy bit: Im really only talkign about your insecurities here. If you are confident your chick is being outright disrespectful or is cheating on you, then, by all means, get rid of her.. even then, I wouldnt want to waste my time being...

I agree with squirrely- Definitely not OK...well, past a certain point. What I\ve realized over the past while is that its basically impossible to completely eradicate an innate emotion from ourselves. This point of "destroying" and condeming jealousy to eternal hell is both...

im curious...whos number did u see that you were so surprised about? an ex bf? an old FB? Now to your problem. Dont call her. Chill out on the whole episode. She has her own issues with everything, let her deal with it the way she wants to. You have already expressed everything you needed...

pretty much-tesuque. Disheartening to say the least, but at our age, unless u truly believe you ARE going to marry this chick, all this will be remebered as nothing more and nothing less than a learning experience in a life full of learning experiences. The truth is, it all doesn't...

someone once said that u dont need to have control over your gf or your relationship if you already have strict control over YOURSELF. Dwell on that.

dont give PR LOVER ALLLLLL the credit: To be honest, I knew this chick was bad news from the start of your thread. I had the feeling she was playing the field. Good for you to get rid of a liar. Now dont be coaxed into "meeting her" or to get her "side" of the story. None of that matters...

on a total side note....where did u get your username? is it your name, or is it after the dj (disc jockey)? sorry for the hijack.

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ok..a couple things that came to my attention. Besides the fact thatt she had the unfortunate chnace of landing an AFC boyfriend (from what u make it sound like), how does that equate into her being "fvcked over", and, consequently, becoming more independant? Being fvcked over usually means...

out of curiosity: are u 2 exclusive? Is it possible she's seeing/banging somebody else on the side? Would it matter to you?

OTR- I feel you dude. You have these lingering feelings. You're still attached. Nobody said it was easy. What WILL help you in the long run is knowing how bad of a match you were. It's one thing breaking up when you still TRULY love and respect a girl, and another thing altogether when...

Re: Re: Girl getting pissed every time I bring up one of her flaws Say my name, say my name! :D Ahem.All this coming from the BIGGEST and MOST fragile EGO on the forum. But all's good. I'm not here to remind him of his absurdities and contradictions. The issue at hand...

That's why i never fully bought into the "one who cares less wins" argument. It never brings up the possibility of a mutual "average-to-below average" interest level. Her IL in you is only 65%...yours in her is hovering around 60%.. Does this automatically presuppose more "power" (ie...

That's why i never fully bought into the "one who cares less wins" argument. It never brings up the possibility of a mutual "average-to-below average" interest level. Her IL in you is only 65%...yours in her is hovering around 60%.. Does this automatically presuppose more "power" (ie...