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32. having done so much of 1 that you see it for what it is and are done with it.... ANDTHEN move onto 2. delta

http://media.filmforce.ign.com/media/670/670907/vid_1571772.html according to this behind the scenes footage, it looks like leather or suede and i've never liked leather/suede blazers but this one's really cool. especially dig the chest pocket flap and no buttons on the sleeves - very modern...

about these approaches, let's get CONCRETE. what do you say EXACTLY? i can think of several things that immediately end in an uncomfortable situation: "hi, how're you doing?" THEN WHAT? "hey, i haven't seen you around here before.... you live in the area?" THEN WHAT? or is the idea that...

howdy, so building attraction, making them want you - all good, important things... so when i heard about mystery's DHV or high value routines, i thought that's great.... but are they all "the cube" and "palm reading" and other stuff to basically be ENTERTAINING? i guess i understand...

thanks fellows. sorry nighter, hang in there and i wish you a speedy recovery. ewh, yeah, definitely - the thing about walking away. i have a whole notebook full of stuff i was studying about generating attraction - people only reach out for you if you pull away.... if you're constantly...

well, it might sound extreme for someone who's internalized the dynamics already. but if you REALLY take apart all the aspects of that, it might be more like the war analogy than it seemed. (eros love is SELFISH, we mercilessly next, we mercilessly use women as stepping stones, they use us in...

howdy, so i've mentioned it on another thread but a girl broke up with me after about 3 months - but not by breaking up but sabotaging it by being distant and cold until i had to. 1. IS THIS NORMALLY HOW GIRLS BREAK UP? (never had a girl friend and this is like my second dating...

argle, that can end up being like the advice: be yourself.... it can be dangerously misleading. i am a computer geek... the career ends up being pretty cool (graphics) but i paid for it with my background (classic a/v squad nerd... seriously, i am the archetype). i don't go out much and where...

i disagree with sinner's post in its entirety. not only do i not think that the original post was boastful, i think it presents an extremely APT view of the world and dating. what... do you NOT AGREE that it's a numbers game? 2% maybe "abyssmal" but the point is that if you run through enough...

harassment should not be an issue if you do it right.... most initial kino is above the waist... nowhere near the butt. and yes, smacking a chick you hardly know on the butt is not only not acceptable but not dj either. YES! practice kino. but part of that practice is starting small and...

that's the other thing, in your particular circumstance, there are a LOT of extenuating circumstances. she's got SO much trauma in her life. yah, maybe just tell her you're there for her and give her space? anyway, i really hope it works out man. delta

seriously though, i think that's what friends are for. and your analogy that in this formulation, women are nothing but "FAIR WEATHER FRIENDS" is absolutely APT! and i'm beginning to think that the one of the PRIMARY DIFFERENCES between a DJ and an AFC is that the DJ NEVER LETS HIS GUARD...

aha, right, thanks jonjack - and that was the point of my thread in the first place: DONTCHA THINK IT'S EASIER TO BE A PUA when you have access to it anytime you want like in the old west. delta

thanks guys, i really did get an unexpected education on this thread. ("masochist" spelling is right on... :) as for "mysogyny" i think it is telling that there is indeed a word made just for it!) for me, such behavior is fine and maybe even expected after a few dates... no problemo... but i...

that's fine mission. but as i said, most guys don't go to prostitutes to CREATE CHILDREN!!! your natural selection argument DOES NOT APPLY! do you not see that? delta p.s. i think you're making the mission of this site too lofty... VERY FEW of us would be here if we didn't want to simply...

thanks! good stuff so far... just want to get a lay of the land. delta

sick revenge... ? maybe.... but as a man, that's a pretty fd up thing to do in my opinion - very passive agressive - instead of having the courage to just tell you, they try to sabotage it and scuttle it and push the responsibility on the guy making it doubly painful. i'm getting to think...

oh yeah, it also reminds me that most of us (recovering)afcs that are desperate for some taint have SIMPLIFIED matters substantially... the women in our heads are CARICATURES. real life women can end up being an unbelievable thorn in your side and pain in your ass.... few things are as vexing...

i still think my way is easier... just make sure you're fing her senseless and then it almost doesn't matter what she says.... delta

AHA... here's a better way to phrase this question: WHERE DO YOU GUYS TAKE YOUR WOMEN? name 5 (again, trying to get away from philosophy back to concrete) thanks. delta