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    Neg Hits... Do they work?

    i'm of the opinion that it can work but only on women who KNOW they are hot and have a high self esteem to boot. but it is EXTREMELY TRICKY because MOST WOMEN, even good looking ones, have REALLY FRAGILE EGOS and are INSECURE at their core. even the "harmless" examples that i've read from...
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    why i don't hate setting GOALS anymore - an epiphany

    i think all my life, because of upbringing and background, the idea of having a GOAL was always a terrible, odious thing to me. a goal was always about what i SHOULD be doing, and about what OTHERS deemed appropriate for my life. i've come to realize that this is NOT how the notion of GOAL...
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    need help by christian guys

    "As long as a person is doing whatever they are doing, whether it is bad, wrong, right, good, nice or just plain mean, conviction is the key to peace." are you serious? "GOOD INTENTIONS" are worthless dontcha think? the issue is the INEFFABLE R E A L I T Y. is it good or bad? lot of people...
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    need help by christian guys

    requested, but are YOU not simplifying? salvation is not based on deeds... but that does not absolve you of doing good or the responsibility of not sinning right? you are not free to do as you please - there is indeed a cost to be counted. tricky eh? delta
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    need help by christian guys

    GK, i disagree that it has to do with christianity perse... let's not feed any persecution complexes. the issue is the "holy", "set apart", "not of this world", "we are right, you are so very lost" devoutness. they are, and DESIRE TO BE, alien. people would have a similar reaction to any...
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    need help by christian guys

    THE PUA WAY and christianity is not NECESSARILY conflicting. PUA is about INFLICTING DESIRE in women, making them want you, being such a man that inspires that desire in them. (but i disagree that 'manning up' should be the focus here... the focus should be in being able to fvck as you...
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    need help by christian guys

    passion, jesus was also the guy that stood up for the local prostitute when she was about to be stoned and said the "let he who is without sin..." thing.... in christianity, the new testament overrides (they would say "fulfills") many of the legalistic precepts, rules and regulations (clean...
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    Girl lost intrest! Need help

    going AFTER HER at this point is a lost cause. you want her to chase you, if you chase her it does not inspire desire on her end... only perhaps repulsion. the key answer and philosophy here is that you simply NEXT HER. she's not worth it. and you guys don't really know each other from a...
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    what ebooks are good? no fake crap or pickupline stuff

    there's nothing wrong with ebooks per-se but it's harder to figure out who's legit. and if you have to pay for it to find out, if you can't peruse it at the store before you buy, the chances of you getting ripped off is higher. i am not advising against ebooks... but it does require more...
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    what ebooks are good? no fake crap or pickupline stuff

    48 laws of power is great. as is "the art of seduction" from same author. i disagree with krassus here. education in a wide variety of OTHER subjects is just that - an education in a wide variety of OTHER SUBJECTS! there is no reason to avoid becoming educated in this particular avenue of...
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    Solo vs Wing Sargin

    i don't have a wing either but i can imagine that it's better with one. especially in social spaces like bars and clubs, if you're there alone, it's really tough to look like you belong. if you've got a friend, you're hanging out together and can make a game of meeting women, have fun with it...
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    The Best Post Ever Made on SoSuave

    EROS love is about YOUR WILL and YOUR DESIRE. A*L*W*A*Y*S. you do not get into it FOR THEIR GOOD or FOR THEIR SAKE. you're looking to get what YOU want. PERIOD. eros love is the only entirely ENTIRELY selfish love there is. if she gets something out of it, that's a nice fringe benefit but...
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    not addressed in DJBIBLE - quick closes

    hey guys, thanks for the advice and tips! seriously appreciated. FightinTiger, sorry, didn't mean to ignore the content of your first post and just go on with my own thoughts... oddly, i actually didn't see it at all until after i posted with my follow up message. weird - but the...
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    The Best Post Ever Made on SoSuave

    right... it's in "the art of seduction" too by robert green in seduction, you appeal to their SELF INTEREST... you DO NOT appeal to their PITY or obligation. you want them to want you for themselves, not feel like they OWE YOU something. it's a tough thing to get right though... in some ways...
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    FR: Lunch at the mall, did I do something wrong?

    you're kinda all over the place here... were you "nervous" or were you "calm"? i'm getting a flavor from what you wrote that you might not have been very smooth... did you not know what to do create awkwardness? did she have fun? you went for the kiss but were you paying attention to her to...
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    Could some one please tell me . .

    yep, men and women do it and usually it's to protect themselves. it's in all the original pick up manual "The Art of Love" by Ovid (roman)... in the section called "cures for love", you have to get yourself AWAY from the other person. you have to separate yourself and physically remove...
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    not addressed in DJBIBLE - quick closes

    hmmm... another thing i have to fight is an incredible urge to end the encounter asap.... i'm panicked and in a hurry myself to get it over with.... hmmmm... how to counter that.... delta
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    not addressed in DJBIBLE - quick closes

    "come on man!" well, that's one way to look at it. but for others it's a way of breaking through a considerable barrier.... to actually get the gumption up to approach and try a close. to understand that it is okay for a stranger to approach another stranger and violate their personal space...
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    not addressed in DJBIBLE - quick closes

    i see your point about luke... but for me, as long as he is transmitting ACCURATE INFORMATION and the information itself is sound, i don't really care if he's fing ten chicks a day or is a PARROT. the only issue is if the info is good. and considering that a great deal of "experts" here give...
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