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hey arlington, especially if it's messing with your confidence, it needs to be addressed. and it may not be a dealbreaker but women like hot guys. especially if you were approached before, you'd be doing yourself a HUUUUUUGE favor by taking the weight off. and, losing weight is NOT THAT...

thank you fellows. i didn't know it would be so difficult to find this kind of understanding about this sort of thing. tjao, i actually don't think it's an excuse. it may be something that, like you, i have to just come to grips with (thanks for your story by the way, it sucks something...

argh, that is an unbelievably tough situation. of course you're not obligated to her but then again, the connections that we end up developing in this life can't just be tossed away like nothing either. here's the question: do you not love her because she's an amputee? and what your answer...

sorry to hear it piterx. hang in there. today was another tough day for me. and i can so clearly see how i would be fine if i didn't have to deal with her and her social life on a frickin' day to day basis. ARGH! but i am noticing that it depends on the day. one day can be utterly wretched...

personally, i find that helping others goes a long way toward helping yourself. a lot of people try to help whether they are experts or not. that certainly includes me. but fortunately, the community is robust enough so that if someone is out and out wrong, other voices will jump in. but in...

it's life changing advice like that that gets me through the day. may such comforting words find their way to you in your dark hours. delta

brilliant. also, some of you seem to understand, some do not. this is NOT about me hanging on, clinging, being unable to next or oneitis. i've let go. but constantly seeing her, working with her, talking with her... this is ILL-ADVISED for even the smoothest and impervious of djs. i've...

karma, you don't get it. and if you understand life, you understand that EVERYONE is wounded if a relationship they cared about goes to crap. and BECAUSE SOMEONE IS WOUNDED AFTERWARDS, does not mean that that wounded behavior existed BEFORE! it's kinda like saying someone had tears in their...

i think the thing about work dating is that nobody figures it'll end (badly). i know... stupid. one-itis is one thing. i could probably be done with her if i didn't have to be in her presence. but having to be around your ex girl constantly as she's engaging in a new romance... that's not...

yah, i was thinking if i do go in, i'm definitely going to do the $35 one first. delta

so the girl i was going out with at work broke it off with me a while back and now she's going out with another guy (not from work thankfully)... but i'm over-hearing about her personal life and where they're going together and stuff and it is just killing me. and the fact that she likes this...

actually, 1st, realize that dancing is a strange endeavor. a bunch of people gathered together to pump to music, agreeing that for this space and time, this is ok. seriously, as a citizen of society and pretty far removed from my tribal roots, it's really kinda bizarre. but it's fun! and if...

hmmmm, it seems like the zeitgeist these days (and something i myself was asking for) is the QUICK CLOSE and how to do it. this direct method appeals to me. kinida sounds like krassus or even what luke skywalker have been saying. but $250 just sounds like a gouge. and it's so hard to...

everybody lies. people lie without it even registering as a lie. if you only keep those people who never lie. you're not going to be left with anyone. and if you yourself NEVER lie, then you can probably look forward to a VERY difficult life. hell, and there are plenty of good reasons, in...

hmmm.... alright, now i'm forgetting which is which... 38 refers to inseam or waist? delta

tomatoes, sorry to hear it. i'm nowhere close. and even though there are plenty of sayings like "hell is getting exactly what you want", i still won't believe it till i experience it. cuz i have a sneaky suspicion that if i have more money than i know what to do with and can screw hot chicks...

ouch. this is gonna sting. ready? "ancies" don't they have spell checkers where you come from... brother? delta

escobar, respect is not to be demanded. wrong road to take. you cannot demand anything of anyone. demanding implies that they owe you something. THEY DO NOT. THIS is where self improvement and self focus comes in. YES, revise yourself. make yourself better. do not whine. do not...

you're welcome. "brother". delta

may be true. but should never be believed until you see for yourself. "being filthy rich won't make you happy." "fvcking the hottest girls in the world any time you want won't make you happy." not to be believed. only to be discovered for oneself. delta