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Yo Vel, It's hard to say whether she's a dead issue or not from the amount of info that she's given you to work with so far. But one thing IS for sure. And that is that her interest level has definitely fallen. Do a search on the these boards for a thread called "Interest Level Scale"...

Yo Squirrels, I'm actually on a similar mission. And I have developed a plan. I will attempt to do it one of two ways: 1. Either keep being the sexual-vibe type guy until I finally encounter a Good Girl with the fewest ulterior motives and who is intent on trying to make me wait for...

Yo Vel, If you can hold out, DON'T CALL HER. Instead, call other women. If you don't have any EQUALLY desireable women to call, then go out and find some RIGHT NOW. Doesn't matter where you are, get some more chicks either in your sights or on your phone----ASAP! Each moment you...

Yo Joekerr31, Excellent post, man...EXCELLENT. Peace...one day.

Yo Troops! Sure, the email that was sent to DJD WAS "fairly" direct. But no matter HOW you slice it, it still comes up a BLOW OFF email. I give her absolutely NO credit for the succinctness of her rejection delivery. WHY? Because it says more AGAINST her character than FOR her...

Yo Vel, I wish I could tell you that you have NOTHING to worry about. I wish I could tell you that the DJ stuff works all the time. I wish I could tell you that your girl is as hot for you as you want her to be. But I can't. But I WILL tell you to STAY THE COURSE. You've posted...

Yo Vulpine and Squirrels, In my personal experience, I've found that NO woman stays in any specific category. There are many women that, on paper, most DJs would consider damaged goods (fat girls, single mommies, and last chancer 'career women') who are in reality IN DEMAND for a lot of...

Yo Squirrels, I'm feeling you on the dilemma of finding a worthy chick who's worthy of ME. So many women out here are SO damaged goods that they either don't go for a GOOD catch, or they don't RECOGNIZE one. And dude, I've found that there are so many different kinds of women out here...

Sometimes, when you have been an AFC for so long, or either have been so ingrained with the AFC mindset, it becomes necessary to strive for the extreme. Sometimes it's necessary to fire your weapon from the "nice guy" starting point, aim at "the jerk" target, JUST SO you CAN fall short and land...

Good point, Realsmoothie. Maybe what I accomplished was not so much a "change" as it was a "graduation". Or maybe it was more like experiencing a growth spurt. I DID used to have fear when I approached the women with my "prop". The props I used were like my security blanket, my training...

Yo Realsmoothie, Long before I found this site, I used to have trouble approaching women. I didn't know what to say to them once I got their attention. I used to take a prop with me wherever I went, like a shopping bag from a particular store at the mall. I would always stop the women...

Yo lougv22, Here's the truth, double-barreled, and at pointblank range: This girl is a bytch. She's not worth another SECOND of thought. She's doesn't give a DAMN about you. She's a fukking USER. She's a liar, a manipulater, and an Attention *****ee. She doesn't see YOU as a...

Yo Troops! Women are like dogs. And men are TOO, by the way. lol We ALL have to be trained. If you feel this girl may be worth your time, go ahead and take it slow-----but make sure you still TAKE IT. Do not let the budding romance start to fade. Your job is to ALWAYS escalate...

Great Post Francisco! Yeah, searching for that perfect balance between engaging conversation and emitting sexuality is what we should be striving for. And whenever there's a lull, I find that if I JUST look at a chick with the same hunger in my eyes as if I thought she was a "pork chop"...

Yeah, Random, unpredictable, questions and comments are ALWAYS better. And I agree also that the best way to amp up sexual tension is to just give them the "sex look". Side Note: A lot of recent success I've had on restaurant dates is to DRAFT the waitresses, waiters, and other...

Yo Squirrels, Sometimes the redundancy of constant sarging and the lack of quality women you meet WHILE sarging can really hit you in the gut like a bayonet. For guys who have entered, or ARE entering the stage in their life where they are actually looking for someone of quality, the...

Dudes, I'm feelin' y'all about not seeing your married friends anymore. But I'd like to remind you guys of this fact too: These guys don't HAVE to be "married" for them to pull a HOUDINI on yo' azz though. I have a good portion of my friends who just meet a chick they really LIKE and...

Exactly, Princelydeeds!!!! The situation with this particular chick is coming to a close. A closure that has been designated by ME, not HER. (IMPORTANT NOTE: Never count on a woman to GIVE you closure, YOU be the one to decide when enough is enough.) I don't know about anyone else, but...

Good Post DJVelvet. Welcome to the Sosuave Army of soldiers...

Yo Troops! To answer Westcoaster’s question about “Is this site helping?" For me, the answer is a big, fat YES! In my life, I can honestly say that I feel like I’ve been Born Again TWICE. The first time was spiritual. The second time was was carnal. The spiritual rebirth was an...