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  1. jimjam

    ex-girlfrien reemergence blues

    I suppose you're right. I said she almost went ghost on me since she went away for work. She's been kind of distant with me since she got back, but still flirty. She keeps touching me when I see her which is at least 3x a week because of our son. And just to draw parralells, this is where the...
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    ex-girlfrien reemergence blues

    She just got back. Fact, she texted me as soon as the plane hit the ground. She told me that I can relax now that she's back.
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    ex-girlfrien reemergence blues

    We never did much talking when we were together. It was a real whirlwind. All I can tell you is that I've worked assiduously to improve myself since we split. I've changed. It stands to reason so has she. Unless she's just putting on the NPD act. Thanks for the input
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    ex-girlfrien reemergence blues

    Think I just answered my own question As I slap myself in the face
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    ex-girlfrien reemergence blues

    Hey everyone.... You all seem to be providing me the same advice. Don't know why I don't listen. Or maybe I'm just nuts. I really don't know what the hell anymore. No doubt most of you will say that I deserve what I get. OK. Maybe. I was asking for it, right? I was always holding out that we'd...
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    Worst Advice You've Ever Received

    Have something to fall back on.... This kind of thinking impedes you from dedicating 200% of yourself to your life's passion
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    ex-girlfrien reemergence blues

    By the way, I love my son more than anything or anyone else, including her. I'd take a bullet for him. To quote Jack Nicholson, "I'd do anything for him. Any fvcking thing."
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    ex-girlfrien reemergence blues

    What you're saying is that she invites me over under the pretense of seeing my son. While there she cooks for me, waits on me, etc, all in an attempt to size me up to see if I'd be a good source of supply again. She'll slowly chip away at me until I'm propping her up again. Then.... Bango! She...
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    ex-girlfrien reemergence blues

    Yeah, of course. But she is my son's mother. It's impossible for me to run away or even avoid seeing her. And she's being super nice toward me lately. Makes me dinner. Takes me and my son out. Won't allow me to pay. It's killing me....all this supplication? I'm fvckef, aren't I? HELPPP!!!!!
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    ex-girlfrien reemergence blues

    Gents, I'm bringing this up again for some new insight. I was speaking to a friend about this and, well, I think my ex may be NPD. An email i sent to my friend: OK As far as Petra goes, I think it’s very possible she’s narcissistic. She was seeing someone else when we met. As soon as things...
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    MAD!!!

    Nope! I'll most likely feel alright tomorrow. But it's just the day. Total waste. Feel useless, cantankerous and no good to anyone. I'm 45 and any day like this is another day I'll never get back. I can't afford to waste my time.
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    MAD!!!

    Hey guys... What do you all do when you just wake up on the wrong side of the bed and you just feel like $h!t? Doesn't happen too often with me but when it does I can't find a place for myself. I feel like I want to tear myself right out of my skin. I'm mad and angry at EVERYTHING. Itell...
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    Now it's the ex wife!!

    HaHaHa Yep. Two different women. Explaining all the details of these two stories is beyond the scope of this site, believe me. I threw that letter away and didn't answer it. My son's mom is being all flirty with me one minute, then all cold as steel the next. I see my son fairly often so I...
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    The Future for YOLO Hot Chicks

    Right on! I thought I had everything I wanted when I met my son's mother. Happiest day of my life was the day she told me she was pregnant. I couldn't believe it. I was having a child with a woman I loved. Call me beta or blue pill if you want. I was to a degree. then she dumps me right after...
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    Why beta males cling to Disney fairy tale LTR's

    Yeah. Behind every great man there is a woman screeching about what she wants. Every time I see a woman driving a big SUV I can't help but think there's some poor guy busting his ball$ for it. Or, for every beautiful woman, there's a guy who's sick of her sh!t.
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    I cannot do nearly as many pushups as I was once able to do

    Man, you're 17. Don't worry about it. I'm 44 and I was doing around 300 pushups whenever I worked out. I don't know how many sets or reps. I'd keep going until I maxed, take a break, then start again. BUT, I'd always try for just one more than I did the last time. I kept pushing myself. Then I...
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    ex-girlfrien reemergence blues

    Update here, but you guys were right! I go to drop my son off at her new place tonight. Her new place that she's been in for less than two weeks. Her mother is there, and as I'm dropping him off, she's running out the door and jumping into some dude's car that's waiting for her outside, leaving...
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    Turning point?

    HaHaHa. Too fvcking much, man! Righteous!
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    ex-girlfrien reemergence blues

    Funny. she was being nice to me the last two months or so. Now she's acting cold again. Whatever. Like I said, I'm going to look after my son and the hell with her. She'll no doubt wind up landing some other poor guy and wrecking his life. Incidentally, my son is the best thing that ever...
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    Now it's the ex wife!!

    Okay. I let my curiosity get the better of me. I wasn't searching for her. I happened to stumble across her name on linkedin and decided, oh, look at this. Why don't I take a look." I wasn't curious about her in any deeper sense or anything like that. Anyway, the long and short of it is that...
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