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as for the other guy, if you can intimidate him and make his life uncomfortable, do so

You ditch the @ssholes and the rude bytches. This is a no-brainer. Self respect and self valuation means you don't stay where you're not wanted--no exceptions (even marriage, IMO...) This will raise your own worth for yourself and maybe for others, too. Loneliness is a problem that...

I knew a dj who said he would slowly and casually nod as if to say "was'up?" The worst thing is to look away quickly, as we know... His response is probably as good as or better than smiling, I believe.

Actually, it was a pretty good post. As for the comments of it being too general or according to one female----that is generally one of those objections that add nothing to the discussion. It's an easy score to make in opposition. You can trot 'em out anytime anywhere and use 'em, and, for...

You're kinda getting it and kinda not---interesting blend here and I'm not sure I can decipher it fully... You get LJBF'd---- Turning it around is a slim proposition. Don't draw conclusions just yet based on that statement. Regardless of her LJBF'ing you, continue practicing the DJ...

It may NOT be the first time you've been LJBF'd, although it may be the first time you've been so clearly and unequivocably LJBF'd... What to do? Be friendly and polite, but cut the time with her in half, or more. Let her see you moving on. I'd convey a sense of quiet amusement. Of...

Not sure if this is a tip, so I expect it will get bounced elsewhere, or just bounced... I've been job bouncing of late, and recently landed at a firm with a female boss who is over 30 but a few years younger than me. She takes dancing lessons and has a figure to show for it. I used to...

Actually, why don't you post here? Some of the best threads have been from guys who posted on this subject, or--the very best---on how to get out of the LJBF zone. Don't get stingy on us.

I posted about doing a search since I was too tired to go thru all that I gathered from previous appearances of this post. Crowes and company got a lot of it (still do the search you lazy b@stard!)--the only thing I can add is that once you've acquired DJ eyes, you don't need a simple rule "if...

We've had a few major threads on this subject, I wish I could direct you where to search. Maybe some of the members copied it into their personal archives, otherwise I'd do a phrase search on variations of "she has a BF". Some posters really summed it up quite well in those posts--made for a...

Ok, like what? I'm missing it... Anyway, should be in tips.

A DJ-Pfc on the discussion board got me thinking about how compliments are given, which lead to the traps that compliments can lead to. Trap 1: you say something attempting to be nice but which can be easily flipped into an insult. Example: "You look slimmer today" will get met with by...

I don't get the sense he really needs closure (2 dates max, right?) I wouldn't bother. Delete her e-mail address, cross out her phone number and don't reply to anything she might send you in 2 months. Probably won't happen, though.

I don't think it's Doc Love. The voice is different (DL likes to hear the sound of his own voice and has a lame sense of humor--which is a test, because if any woman laughs at it, she MUST be interested.) A-D summed up something with no flab--I'm a wordy mofo, but what he mentioned cut to...

Steele is always a fun read and a self-AFC test (in my experience), which is to say that he delivers his lines and you take like you take cheap whiskey (no apologies!~!) Anyway, where did this first appear?

What's the full tip?

The question is nearly impossible to answer it's almost a joke--but it doesn't go away if I simply dismiss it like that, so here goes.... I did have a co-worker mention to me that 20-something's like getting married because it was fashionable. I was 25 at the time and took exception to the...

My weird sense of humor that tends to run over the top at times. I'm saying "sure, next 'em, by shooting them at dawn..." (friendly sarcasm...) Anyway, by way of background--(it's a bad idea to explain jokes, which shows how well it worked, huh?) Standing them up against the wall at dawn...

Loosen up. There are games and then there are games. Use a little discretion. I hear you, though. If people--men, women, the family pet--played you before, you have to do a fair amount of restructuring of yourself on many levels so that you become different, you know yourself differently...