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    Buddy acts like an ASS in the club, but it may be to my advantage

    It can't be that stable a thing with him, so don't look for it to last. One thing is that he does all the ballsy stuff (going up) while go soft and wait for the clean up. Do this enough and you won't know what to do if he's not along. Remember the phrase "you're known by the company you...
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    Would a Woman Bring You to Her Place If She Didn't Want To F*?

    I remember explaining to a female friend of mine why some guy she was partying with was all over her after they went back to her place for coffee. Usually in those situations it means they want to fvck. You may expect some conversation, etc., but generally it ends up in bed. Unless, like...
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    ********...and a LJBF turnaround

    She's still in play, vdk...hot/cold means the action is still live, this isn't a terminal red flag situation yet, and he's handling it.
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    ********...and a LJBF turnaround

    You did this under the influence??? Wow--this is why training is so important, because--as the marines say--you fight like you train. Or something like that.
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    When Is I Love You Not Enough?

    It's not a major red flag but I look twice at any person (male and female) that take this as a major milestone or attach tremendous importance to it. I'm from the school of thought that any reasonable person would know what the real attachment was long before these words had to be said (if...
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    My Gf gets mad every time we go out.

    Cows don't float...??? Whoa.
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    Why do I have to go HALFWAY AROUND THE FREAKIN WORLD to find a decent female?

    Lot of stereotypes flying around here... The "speak 3 languages" isn't as specatucular as it sounds (it's good, don't get me wrong...) but if you know Spanish or Italian or French or Portugese, you're already halfway towards mastering one or all of the others. And then English is nearly...
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    My Gf gets mad every time we go out.

    Nothing you can tell her. Not much you can do about it. She's got problems and these will probably be there most of her life. Every BF she gets will deal with this resentful jealousy. If it's 5 months and "real serious" then you will have to cope. At some point, for this reason or...
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    Dumping a chick - What a feeling!

    Pamela Anderson is jacked-up skank.... but I know what Howard means...he's right ('cept about Pam...)
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    Clubs full of girls with their "b**ch shields" up...approach anyway??

    Bytch-shields on high usually requires neg-hits or really strong raps... Generally I think bars and clubs are the worst places to find women. Some guys thrive there, others (like me) find the type of woman that goes to a club not worth it. Ever. They go there (to answer your question)...
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    How to deal with possible user

    Step back a ways and sum it up: a) a lot of negatives. b) no positives. c0 everything else is falls into the "much confusion" category. Eject. Do so before she flakes on you. _______________ Now, along the lines of Pook's "get a life" or "lose that desperation"... I would point out...
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    WHoa! I just had an epiphany on attraction

    Starman, I've had girls who certainly don't fit my "type" become attractive--I don't know WTF it is, but I knew they were the exception. This happens more as you get older. What I noticed: HBs of 8, 9, 10 etc often remain nothing more to me and nothing more useful than eye candy since...
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    The MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL i have ever seen, one problem though...

    HB: Quick said a lot--- partly, he's saying---the bible ISN'T merely for inspiration, it's for INFORMATION and KNOWLEDGE. Inspiration--??? Well, yeah, sure, but it's more than that, it's more than a feel-good "go out an' get 'em boys!" blow sunshine up your @ss thing...use it to get up...
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    Eye Contact

    Generally it means "attraction." At first I thought your question was troll set-up, but it has more to it on second thought. PEOPLE use eye-contact as a means of just that---contact. Find someone who avoids eye-contact and you'll notice your immediate reaction is that they are...
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    Is she playing hard to get?

    I'm from your part of the country, Buck (dakota county--went to school with Craig Kilborn, so you know how old I am..) Planet Hollywood--not good for the girls I date (but not bad), but great for other girls--it all depends on the girl and what she expects. Without knowing her, we can't...
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    Girl I put on the pedestal and I don't know how to get her off

    Flake the date. Call her and make up some excuse. Don't get caught up in it, just say something came up and you two need to rescedule--then---if she pushes the reschedule, make it for something near when she leaves. Then flake that... You've done well--I mean that--but don't jeopardize...
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    This guy last night when I went out

    Good observations backbreaker... I would say the reasons for his Quixote-like challenge would be: --desperation; and --unclear on the concepts. He was aware enough that the 3 of them were in a slow horse race for [shapeless] HB (does that make her a -B??? anyway...) and no one was...
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    Getting out of the LJBF zone (if possible)

    I like the bluntness of your post Uni--no messing around and it covers a couple of points without wasting breath. Usually I preface an answer to this type of post as "If you're one of the rare few who can take command of yourself and the situation, this is how you do it..." when I can tell by...
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