You're supposed to leave a message dude!
On the first phone call, if you have to leave a message, this is fun to do:
"Hey, this is big weezy. Quit playing hard to get and give me a call back! Bye."
You can call back and leave a message. Wait a week and if she doesn't respond, try again...
This may sound absurd to you, but you're actually doing the wrong thing.
The main point of waiting to call is to seem not-needy, however, your current mindset is something along the lines of "I don't know when I should call her so that she won't reject me..."
Stop that right now and pick up...
First of all, since they text you past 10:30pm, they might just be texting you out of boredom. In fact they might be alone and looking for someone to entertain them. I could be wrong, but I think these ones aren't being genuine with you.
If you look at the part of your post that I highlighted...
Haha yes that is a pretty accurate impression of that dude!
Looks like a pretty complete collection of interviews, I think I'll download them tomorrow. Thank you for sharing that link.
Lol I used an old school opener that I got from Thundercat: "Who do you think lie more, men or women?"
I'm looking forward to making up some of my own in the future to use. It really doesn't matter what you say as long as you're in character and out to have a good time.
The meeting...
One thing you need to keep in mind is proximity.
Think about it - if you RUN towards a girl (as if there is a shortage of women in the world) she could get A LITTLE creeped out and might think you're trying to attack her or rape her. I mean what would you do if a big guy that you've never seen...
Realize that sometimes women think you're not interested if you don't make a move.
Besides, you had pretty much ZERO comfort with this woman at the grocery store.
If you don't follow up with an opener, she might think you're a polite wussbag who will let her walk all over you.
In other words...
You're making it hard for yourself if you think of it from the position of "planning your whole game." Sure you can have backup topics preplanned if you need them during a lull in the conversation, you can even think up some c&f lines or random things to tease her about if you can pull that off...
Seems like she had fun on your date, and so did you.
I like that you took her back to your place, but told her she could only "take a peek." That was a very good move.
I think you should have held her hand if you wanted to. It's really easy, just put your hand out for her to take, or brush...
Lol dude Michael Richards no doubt gets a lot of pvssy and I don't think he's very jacked at all.
To answer your question: Are you Kramer?
You don't lift weights to get girls, you lift weights to improve your self-image.
I think you would benefit greatly from lifting because you're obviously...
Bombard your life with hobbies?
Bad idea. You don't want to be bombarded with hobbies; you want to adopt new hobbies gradually so you don't overload yourself.
Take it one hobby at a time if you're starting out with a clean slate.
If you want to meet girls, try something that girls like to do...
Stop thinking so much and learn to accept things as they are.
Having muscles doesn't imply horniness...if it did, muscles would turn girls OFF.
Defined muscles show that you're a strong guy, which means you're powerful and you can protect her. This is very attractive to women.
Dude, I am an...
I don't believe that anyone has to be so called "socially retarded."
It's your choice whether or not you make an effort to increase your social circle and social skills.
For the most part, social skills determine how you handle interactions with other people. Your usage of voice tone, body...
I love everything about this thread. This must be put in the DJ Bible!
Beliefs are so hard to change.
(I should believe they're easy shouldn't I :-P)
I am turning 18 in 2 months, and even at a young age it's extremely difficult to completely reorganize your thoughts. I always feel like I...
If a girl slaps you, shake it off.
The slap is a good sign because it means you created some attraction.
"Now thats no way to treat a man, honey. Hitting wont get you anywhere in life, unless you're training to become a professional boxer."
Alright so in this situation here, she slapped you...
Sounds like her interest level went down. The problem I see here is that you're giving her too much control of the frame.
If you had not texted her when she told you to, her interest level would have risen! After all, you should only be texting her when you want a date and want to be...
Since you have such a straightforward title, and I'd like to help out...
Don't worry, in large groups you don't have to talk to everybody.
The only tip I can really give you on this one is if you talk louder than everyone else, more people will be listening to you and may want to join in on...
You need to establish interest beforehand socially. You'd be better off talking to as many people as you can, making lots of friends and then you'll have instant social status because people will see you as the guy everyone likes.
You first need IL (interest level) then you can push/pull...
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