Do women SUCK at conversation or...

[TKool]

am I lacking the skills to interpret women?

I mess around with online dating. It's good practice for me since I'm not ready to cold approach. Seven girls text or called me from a dating website. I mass emailed girls telling them I liked their profile and photos. I gave my number in this email.

Anyway, most of these chicks contact me within four days. And they always text LATE (after 10:30pm).

Most just say...

"wassup"

"hey you"

"what u doing"

I may say "wassup" or "chillin, what u doin?". And usually she says "nothin".

After this...I'm a lost for words.

What do women expect a guy to talk about?
Why the hell do they contact me so late?
How should a man keep the conversation going?

 

[UniKKatiL]

Nothing? Hook me up and I'll show you a good time, baby

 

[x86]

try texting "How about we get to know each other at your place?" and report back because I am curious.

 

[909pua]

Its not that they know how to conversate or are boring, its because of you. Women are reactive creatures, they are the way they are because of you. If you are boring then they will be boring. You need to be a fun outgoing person. Its easier said than done, you just have to practice and talk to as many people as you can everywhere you go, fat, skinny, tall, short, medium, large, dark skin, light skin, green skin, you name it.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

First of all, since they text you past 10:30pm, they might just be texting you out of boredom. In fact they might be alone and looking for someone to entertain them. I could be wrong, but I think these ones aren't being genuine with you.

If you look at the part of your post that I highlighted, I want to let you know that what you are doing WILL NOT create attraction.

That's another reason why I think they aren't being genuine with you.

You need to find another way to meet women online WITHOUT giving them your number. You're making it way too easy and it makes you seem a bit desperate, especially since you complimented them as well.

So you also mentioned that you wanted to cold approach. What you're doing is NOT practice for cold approaching at all. You're not going to walk up to a woman on the street and say "Hey I like your profile and photos, here's my number, call me."

Try writing to them with something you would ACTUALLY say in real life.


You're giving away all of your power.

Before you arrange a phone conversation or a date with a woman, especially online, you want to make sure that you're INTERESTED in her.

Why the hell would you give your number away to a girl you're not interested in? This is why women sometimes give fake numbers to guys they're not interested in.

As for the conversational question you posed, you're having trouble conversing with these women because you have NO RAPPORT.

When this happens, it's up to you to keep the conversation going. The man is always the leader when leadership is needed.

When you answer their texts with pretty much EXACTLY the same boring old thing they texted you, and by doing this YOU are being BORING!

It's not your fault though, it's just that you're taking the wrong approach to this thing. These are women that you have no rapport with, they're just random women you gave your number to.

Next time, be sure you're interested in having a conversation with a women before you ask her for HER number.

am I lacking the skills to interpret women?

I mess around with online dating. It's good practice for me since I'm not ready to cold approach. Seven girls text or called me from a dating website. I mass emailed girls telling them I liked their profile and photos. I gave my number in this email.

Anyway, most of these chicks contact me within four days. And they always text LATE (after 10:30pm).

Most just say...

"wassup"

"hey you"

"what u doing"

I may say "wassup" or "chillin, what u doin?". And usually she says "nothin".

After this...I'm a lost for words.

What do women expect a guy to talk about?
Why the hell do they contact me so late?
How should a man keep the conversation going?

 

[KingofHearts]

These girls want to get laid ASAP. Is that what you want? If you're looking for ONS, then it sounds like you have plenty of candidates. Don't let your ego sky rocket, I'm sure their texting other people at the same time.

If you want "conversation" from them (nothing wrong with wanting some level of chemistry before getting naked with a stranger), then it may take a little time to find someone who wants the same.

And if it bothers you to get calls after 10pm, then don't give out your number to lonely people!

 

[tafakna]

It's good practice for me since I'm not ready to cold approach.

After this...I'm a lost for words.

How should a man keep the conversation going?

I advocate that the first step to solve problems is to recognize one's shortcomings.

By reading your email it's quite clear (as others pointed out) that you're the done who needs to be better at conversation...

Try reading Dale Carnegie's books, it's a good start...

 

[TKool]

The reason why I started sending out mass emails with my phone number, because I invested way too much time reading through profiles, and crafting a tailored email only to receive nothing back. I used to only send emails to girls that matched my interests and had good stuff to say, and I thought my initial messages were much better than the average guy...but no responses.

 

[Allurre]

Women won't be stimulated to participate actively in a conversation UNLESS you give her a good reason to. Try to pique their curiosity and 'seed' for a response in the future that's fun and playful.