Ugh couldn't get myself to approach

[Rhino22]

Well, went to walmart earlier and bought nothing. When I was walking out I saw this hot depressed looking blonde girl at the cash register checking out. I went outside, and waited. Kept watching for her b ut standing by the pop machine getting myself a water. She came out and looked at me, but there were tons of people walking and she went to her car. I should have just ran over to her and said something? Didn't know what to do. Dang dang dang

 

[xdreamz]

if you don't know what to do then you probably would have failed

it goes like this... the chick that you really want is around, you open her with anything, you focused on connecting conversationally and showing that you're a cool guy. now naturally you should have stuff to say about her that you like. then you suggest things the two of you can do later (something pleasurable)..this is going to get her interested. the idea might even pop up in her head later having her do some work. thats good, you want her chasing you. then you just exchange numbers and chat up for a little and leave before she gets bored.

at a bus stop..
"does the #3 bus stop here".. here's a little kick you want to practice. telling her little stories. you state the facts of your life, then you tell her your reactions to it. "yea i just got here and i don't know anything around here. so now i am just sooo lost" her attraction should go up because you have stirred her emotions. this is extremely useful because you get something totally boring and you make it into something interesting, something about you which is what you want it to be about. then be creative with ur suggestive insinuations, if you tell her "you should come see my school it is so beautiful" it's going to make her want to see the school. and you want her coming into your world.

everything is indirect, there is no... ur beautiful... ur cute... you could be a little direct but the girl will see you as one of those guys that are hitting on her bringing up a lot of unneeded resistance. everybody wants a challenge, not someone kissing ass to them all the time.


that's pretty much how you approach...

 

[Nino-Tk]

Never THINK just do it!

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Well, went to walmart earlier and bought nothing. When I was walking out I saw this hot depressed looking blonde girl at the cash register checking out. I went outside, and waited. Kept watching for her b ut standing by the pop machine getting myself a water. She came out and looked at me, but there were tons of people walking and she went to her car. I should have just ran over to her and said something? Didn't know what to do. Dang dang dang

One thing you need to keep in mind is proximity.

Think about it - if you RUN towards a girl (as if there is a shortage of women in the world) she could get A LITTLE creeped out and might think you're trying to attack her or rape her. I mean what would you do if a big guy that you've never seen before in your life started running towards you like a stampeding rhino? (Edit: Lol I didn't realize your username was rhino )

It's really not as hard as you think. You're actually unconsciously MAKING it hard for yourself.

My first cold approach ever took me over 2 hours of walking up and down main street in the center of town. I paced that sidewalk probably 50 times back and forth and I couldn't find the balls to approach. Eventually I got some friends to help me out and I approached a set of two college girls in their 20s. It was really short too, the interaction only lasted like 30 seconds (I was fvcking anxious to get it over with.)

Anyway, these were the two hottest girls I've EVER talked to in MY LIFE.

Talk about success...and it only took me two hours.

A few months later when I tried another approach, I kept chickening out and finally when I saw a girl walking my way ahead of me, I said to my myself "This is it! It's now or never! I've done this before..."

This one didn't really seem to want to talk, but I stopped her and used my opener, then let her go because I was satisfied with my effort. This interaction lasted about 15 seconds.
I was a fvcking beast. I opened her with a sexy tone of voice and she gave me a big smile instantly and was almost at a loss for words.

This approach took me about 5 minutes total.

I went from taking 2 HOURS to ONLY 5 MINUTES!

You can totally do this too.
It's only as hard as you believe it is and once you realize how easy it really is, you'll believe it's easy and you will see TREMENDOUS SUCCESS.

It's YOUR time and YOUR effort that makes the difference.

Use them wisely.

 

[Rhino22]

One thing you need to keep in mind is proximity.

Think about it - if you RUN towards a girl (as if there is a shortage of women in the world) she could get A LITTLE creeped out and might think you're trying to attack her or rape her. I mean what would you do if a big guy that you've never seen before in your life started running towards you like a stampeding rhino? (Edit: Lol I didn't realize your username was rhino )

It's really not as hard as you think. You're actually unconsciously MAKING it hard for yourself.

My first cold approach ever took me over 2 hours of walking up and down main street in the center of town. I paced that sidewalk probably 50 times back and forth and I couldn't find the balls to approach. Eventually I got some friends to help me out and I approached a set of two college girls in their 20s. It was really short too, the interaction only lasted like 30 seconds (I was fvcking anxious to get it over with.)

Anyway, these were the two hottest girls I've EVER talked to in MY LIFE.

Talk about success...and it only took me two hours.

A few months later when I tried another approach, I kept chickening out and finally when I saw a girl walking my way ahead of me, I said to my myself "This is it! It's now or never! I've done this before..."

This one didn't really seem to want to talk, but I stopped her and used my opener, then let her go because I was satisfied with my effort. This interaction lasted about 15 seconds.
I was a fvcking beast. I opened her with a sexy tone of voice and she gave me a big smile instantly and was almost at a loss for words.

This approach took me about 5 minutes total.

I went from taking 2 HOURS to ONLY 5 MINUTES!

You can totally do this too.
It's only as hard as you believe it is and once you realize how easy it really is, you'll believe it's easy and you will see TREMENDOUS SUCCESS.

It's YOUR time and YOUR effort that makes the difference.

Use them wisely.

Cool. So what did you say to them? Do you remember?

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Cool. So what did you say to them? Do you remember?

Lol I used an old school opener that I got from Thundercat: "Who do you think lie more, men or women?"

I'm looking forward to making up some of my own in the future to use. It really doesn't matter what you say as long as you're in character and out to have a good time.

The meeting process should be fun, and you should be generating some emotions in the women you approach.

You must be able to make a girl smile and laugh. ****y comedy, humor in general, flirting, neg hits and push/pull all generate emotional responses in women, which lead to attraction.

If you're a confident guy, you can easily attract a woman, however you've got to start some conversation to allow her to see your amazing charm and personality.

Even if you smile at a girl, then say hi, you're still making her FEEL GOOD because you're communicating happiness and friendliness to her, which are EMOTIONAL.

Ask girls questions to do cold approaches.

"Excuse me, do you have the time?" is not a question that is likely to lead to an emotional conversation and is lame and overused.

I think you get the idea, but the one true way to succeed is to act.
It doesn't matter if you come up with a stupid opener man, you're out there for practice and you'll look back on it as you having major balls to actually cold approach.

Only a handful of men in the world are man enough to cold approach women.

 

[Rhino22]

Only a handful of men in the world are man enough to cold approach women.

Like what percentage would you say? lol