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HI All, OK, so I did what you guys have been preaching for ages... I gave a guy that I met in a supermarket my number on sunday and told him to call me. He did that night, and has called me twice since. It went very well, and we had heaps to talk about, but we still haven't set a time for a...

Hey, just a quicky... haven't been on here for a while, kinda missed you guys! If a guy refered to a girl as 'sweet', as in 'you're a sweet person!', do you think this is a sign that he's kinda smitten? Jas

2 things... 1. When you have a girlfriend theres no sense of deperation (either actually desperation or expected desperation because of your situation) 2. Other girls think 'well, ok, he's with her... he must be okay'. Now that sounds shallow, but the fact that a guy can hold a girlfriend...

It really depends as to whether you can see her as a friend and whether you can spend time with her without the old feelings hurting so much. It's totally up to you. If you can be yourself around her, and don't feel like you are 'below' her as such, then you have no problem.

ok, and I am sharing a gem with you here... the only possible way to reverse this is to do the following: Set yourself a time limit. say 2 weeks. Say to yourself that you will be 'the perfect guy' to this girl for this period. Then cut it off. Say you're busy. Make it a real 'all then...

this is the main thing, isn't it? Would I be right in saying that most guys would prefer to live in the moment than to be thinking too far ahead?

Haha shortimer!!!!!!!! Thanks guys... It was more hypothetical that anything else... This is what I want and i just wanted to know how a few guys (such as yourselves) would react to it if it came up. Any other thoughts are appreciated! Jas

Hey, i am dating guys here and there at the moment... no-one special just yet. I just wanted to ask you all, if a girl you were dating (1st or second date)said that she wanted to have kids at 29 (it casually comes up in conversation, she didn't state it as a warning or anything) and shes...

Well, I wasn't going to go into the nitty-gritty, but I knew he had this 'friend' (the girl) and I told him (jokingly) that I had emailed her to see what he got up to on the weekend (I knew he had seen her). Then it was kinda like a confessional thing. i hadn't even emailed her!

Hey guys, Just wondering.... If you found out that a girl that you had your eye on for a while had a f*ck buddy, would this change your opinion of them? The reason I ask is that I have kinda had my eye on a guy for a while and have found out that he has (as he is inbetween relationships)...

Look at the facts: she's 18, prime dating age. She's an adult. If she wanted to see you, she would. Shes all grown up now. She's not interested enough. next her.

It's been pointed out to me that I like guys that look like members of my family; my dad, my brothers. I think it is pretty normal, and it is about going for people that look 'normal' to you... like the people you hang around a lot of the time, or 'your kind' for a lack of a better word! Jas

Hey, I think it has all been said, but I have one more point: I think that what other people think of you determines your life to a scary degree. A lot of change has to happen in your life before you are going to mbe truely happy. As someone else mentioned, the minute you can walk out of...

Excellent post Sideshow. Thanks.

Magic Pank. Thanks!!!! Thanks all!

Sorry, i didn't explain the context too well... he's being cheeky... and he's married. He's saying that I couldn't do any better than him basically.

I am writing to a guy over the internet, and he has just said 'I know you want me'... I need a DJ way to shoot him down and I can't think. Please help!

Come on guys... need your input! You've never failed me before! :-)

Stay away from this girl. I can tell that you have been crazy about her in the past and she knows it. She now also knows that you are what I call her 'reserve', someone that she can go to if it all goes to crap and you will pick her up again, give her the self-confidence to go pick up another...

Hey, I am thinking of writing an sms to a guy something like this: '<band name> are playing on <date>. If you play your cards right, you might be able to take me' We've been out once or twice before. Good idea or no?