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I'm not sleeping with him now, only when we were together?? And I won't again unless we are in a relationship.

We have slept together! He wants to be at my house all the time! More than I want him here if I am completely honest. He is a total AFC yet won't commit! Bizarre if you ask me. Hence why I'm here.

I just think that it is a lot of trouble to go to just to have sex, and if genuinely thinks you're beautiful why not commit? He wants to be around you all the time anyway! Alright, thanks Igetit, point taken. So what I do to move it to the next level?

Can you think of a reason that a guy would want to be with you all of the time, has very deep conversations with you, thinks that you're beautiful, brings condoms around to your place (in secret), yet he dumped you 3 months ago (after dating for 2 months) because he didn't think you were 'the...

err, that was a joke. He's cute but I'm sure not gonna travel half way round the world for a ****. Thanks tho. B. Jas:rolleyes:

So...... whats Brek's number???????? hehe :-)

Keep it brief, only say what you have to. I personally wouldn't do it (although its easy to say that when you're not in your situation). I would maybe drop her a note saying that you're moving, give her a forwarding address/number and say that if shes ever in town... Make it as light as...

Hi All, Just wondering... What interest level keeps you interested? Please vote and post any comments you have. Do you like a challenge? Or do you back off if the IL is low? Thanks! Jas

Do you think that it is possible to buy confidence? If you had the best of everything, would you be more confident? Your thoughts please.

I really feel like this kind of behaviour is giving the relationship a bad vibe from the start. Why not call twice, three times maybe, and if you don't hook up, next. I just feel that if you get all bummed just because she couldn't go out in the first instance you suggested, you might be ruining...

Hey Dee-zy... I take it it was no go mate? I have been anxiously awaiting an update on this one!! hehe :-) Jas

Thanks again all for input. BP1974, I got a little paranoid thinking that he'd been on this site, so I changed the details that I thought I could change without changing the story. Sorry, guess I stuffed it up! And he'll know anyway now if he has been here!!!!!!!!! I promise this is the real...

Hehe, sorry to make the typical girl comment here, but I think you should hold onto this. You 2 sound like a very cute couple :-)

Thanks for your replies. I'm 24 NewMan. I'm going to ask him tonight why his 2 marriages failed. Regardless of what he says, do you think that this track record should be a red flag?

I don't know about the 'lust' comment, but I think I know where you are coming from hot ice. I would be sure about this guy if he didn't have so much damn baggage!! I know that he has told me every important thing there is to know, but he has just packed so much into his 28 years that I just...

I would listen to myself if I could think straight! Do you guys think that he is too flippant with the 'L' word, or do you actually think that we have something here? Can a guy really love 3 women INTENSELY in his lifetime, or do you think that he doens't really know what love is?

This is of interest to me too. There is a fine line! Can't wait for others comments Jas

Hey all! A guy i am seeing has just told me that he is in love with me. The very next day he did something (minor) that made me question it, and when I did he said 'I meant it. I have only ever been in love with two other women, and I married them' (he's been married/divorced twice)...

Hehe, point taken Bobb :-)

You have to wait till you see her next. Try some C + F and go from there. You'll find something to say to start up the conversation...