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Hey Noticing a lot of helpful threads about BPD and Toxic Women appearing on the forum. If say you start dating a girl and she begins pulling crazy chit, or a HUGE red flag appears....what is the Alpha male way to deal with it?

- Unable to take responsibility for anything - My recent ex has abandoned £1000+ worth of items at my house, which she has told me I can have because she is unable/unwilling to come and collect them - Nothing is ever her fault - Starts arguments to 'liven things up a bit' in an otherwise good...

Biggest lesson I've learned..... NEVER overlook the red flags Your life can literally depend on it

"What's disappointing is when you have high hopes for a girl, and it turns out she's just another sleaze. There are decent girls out there, but they're not always the ones you would expect." Couldn't agree more. The common trend with the 'hotties' I've dated is there tends to be a deep...

Three times in your post you state you have incoming female attraction. This tells me that your probably a decent looking chap and that whatever you're working in in the gym or other self improvement is working. I think you're over complicating and undoubtedly over-thinking the situation. I...

Just thankful that I averted anything more serious down the line. In regards to refusing to put her on the deeds I think it's more than a coincidence she left 4 days later. Or if I'd got her pregnant, grief she would have had me over a barrel for 18 years!

Yes I'm from Manchester. Nice one Have a great weekend yourself ☺

Hi guys, Just want to say thanks for you all for your help, advice and support over the last few months. Your help prior, during and after my recent break-up has been invaluable and has really helped me through this sh1tty time. I'm feeling pretty much over her now and feel I'm back on track...

One of the last things mine say was 'I appear to be doing better without her' Still pondering the exact meaning, but I think its as broad as it is long

My recent ex had this issue.....She said all the guys she had serious relationships with, all settled, got married, had children after they left her..... She was convinced one day that 'everything would go wrong' or that I would cheat on her. A very bad mindset to start and maintain a relationship

Well not really my responsibility, but she had given up her flat so she could move in with me. It had taken about a year for her to save up/decorate get etc......She could only get one through a housing association because her credit rating was so low Now shes back at her old bedroom at her...

"not in awe, smiling from her eyes and looking sweet... that woman lacks a masculine presence in her life" That's true, a very good rule of thumb. Last time I saw my ex, she was gaunt, drawn in the face, pale and looked slightly foetal. Even her body language had altered, she was sat sort of...

I'm wondering if any of you have ever felt sorry for an ex, even if it was her who broke up with you. I was dumped by text 2 months ago. She walked out on me whilst I was at work The reason I ask this; I put some thought into my situation with my recent ex which some of you have read/heard...

She's totally gone now anyhow. Blocked her on every known method and seeing a new plate tonight

I've learnt this the hard way and made my self look like an a&& for the past two months over a girl who walked out on me

In my case I did see it coming but I was dumb enough to overlook the glaring red flags. I assumed everything would work itself out, and one day she took off whilst I was at work. I've learnt a lot from this experience however

A girl I'd been seeing texted recently saying "even though she loves me we should keep going our separate ways" My response; "Good, I was thinking the same thing. I've realised I don't love you any more. Goodbye"

I've got 2 children, twins, aged 5, one of each, and they are totally worth it. I have a fantastic relationship with them and they look forwards to the time they spend with me at my place. Oddly enough, having children hasn't impacted on my dating or women being willing to date me. However I...

I'm curious as to whether them going off the rails, after they've discarded us is a common trend too,

How did yours react/behave when she left?