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Red Flag I overlooked........ "My relationships don't last more than a couple of months" Every other Man she dated had got rid as soon as she pullled anything daft

Yeah I know, but I'm really beating myself up about things Even though she displayed the classic bpd behaviour a lot of the time, and liked to start xxxx to add drama. I'm filled with guilt as to how I could've handled it better. I feel like I xxxxed up some thing really good, even though in...

Hi guys, Just a bit of background for anyone who has been following my experiences of a narc/bpd relationship. This is an outline of events from the last 6 weeks and I think it makes for an interesting case study for anyone who is curious: -26th Feb - Ex takes phone into shower in morning...

Can I ask where the DJ Bible is?

Hi Guys If your girlfriend/wife left you and took her things to her mums whilst you were at work….. How would any of you react?

@lizardking82 Yup. From our posts it appears we've both dated a similar type of woman Don't know about you, I'm carrying a lot of bad feelings around and I'm feeling as though the blame for everything was pushed onto me.

Strange thing with this girl, she would use everything to pretty much put me down. Even the things that initially attracted her..... For example, she was initially attracted to my masculinity and strength, She later said that I was too distant, unfeeling and controlling The thing is, I was...

Hi Guys Just been through an interesting emotional and lifestyle change, which has occurred after by BPD/Daddy Issue/Narc walked out of my life 5 weeks ago. Initially, for the first few weeks I was grieving. Hard. I begged, pleaded, blew up her phone, bombarded her with texts etc….. I...

I'm current;y going through a very bad break-up and trying to look for ways to develop and improve myself. These include; - I've started working out and going running - Dating new women - Joined POF - Thinking of going into investment - May book a holiday for myself Is there anything else you...

I don't get it..... Why would she be upset then reject me?

As an update.....This particular girl contacted me recently over Facebook wishing me luck in life I then rang her up and she was in tears over the phone sobbing her heart out. She asked for another chance, which I have her and instead of pursuing me she blew me off the day after by starting...

I think whats bugging me at the minute now its over, is the thought that maybe there was something more I could've done to help/fix her/make her more comfortable I remember every time she started arguing I would sit next to her and put my arm around her and start asking questions etc to dig it...

My experiences with a Narcissits; As for my recent posts, I’ve recently split from an ex after 8 months and I’ve learnt of the numerous red flags that Narcissism carries. Upon doing some research I’ve realised that my ex was in fact a full blown Narc and I’ve decided to post these here for...

Bit of an update; She contacted me on messenger yesterday. Said she missed me and has been a mess since I dumped her, moping around the house upset etc. She said she wanted to give it another go, and she wants to begin dating me from scratch again. Now whilst I realise a ‘relationship’...

Hey guys, Im writing to please get your advice of an iverview regarding a recent relationship I was in for 8 months. Firstly, after reading Corey Waynes book and adopting many of the principles and masculine behaviours described, I attracted a girl from work with very little...

Hey Guys I've been on here a while now, and whilst I have been given a lot of golden advice on relationships over the years I feel it is time I have something back to you all for what I have learned. I don't claim to be a pook/corey wayne/Doc love but there are a few things I have learnt and...

Pray for me that I don't drunk dial her... Delete every way you have of contacting her....numbers/whattsap/call logs/messages etc I've had to do the same thing to prevent myself ringing my ex up

Day 1 Things weren’t going too well between me and her recently, mainly due to her contrast insecurity, mistrust and unusual behaviours. We spoke to each other yesterday in the morning and she said she ‘loved me more than anything, and didn’t want to lose me’ etc…….Yet when I had gone home I...

Situation Update: Had another argument out of thin air on Monday night, and after that she got mad at every single thing I said. admittedly dhoulnt have lost my temper with her and said a few things I'm not proud of, but this situation was absolutely driving me crazy! Yesterday, came home and...

Hey, I am near Manchester, England