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I would've followed this up with "Aw that's kind of you.....What are you upto now?" Or "What are you doing later?" Or "Thank you. Fancy grabbing a coffee/drink/protein shake/smoothie?" Ask questions, always be closing. She put herself into your orbit, she approached you and threw an obvious...

Cannot state this point enough! If you get her pregnant, there's the possibility she will suddenly develop a set of morals and decide to 'keep' this one. Ie you Then she got you for 18 years.

I agree with billtx49. Those 180s point towards some sort of disorder, or at least something being off with her anyhow. Twice you went to call it off and she changed her mind. Sounds like she wants to keep you in backup position, and is likely trying to string you along. Walk away and never...

100%!

I started with a serious mindset 2 weeks ago I wish I had started years ago

First of many red flags. If you stick around you will likely see more Currently my GTFO button is set to Defcon 1, I ghosted on a plate last week for less

Having my 'soul mate' move out whilst I was at work. Just 2 hours before she was e-mailing me that "she loved me always and would never do anything to hurt me" Realising I have never actually put myself first in a relationship Realising a crazy bee-hatch who had been dumped by everyone in the...

Joined the gym thanks to your inspiration mate. Going 5 times a week, having personal training sessions, diet plans being created Already lost 14 of body fat and seeing great definition in arms/abs/shoulders/pecs Feeling much better about everything, keeps mind occupied, posture/walk has...

This was my mistake I ignored the warnings

I personally would've felt a lot better if I had dumped her. Unfortunately I didn't know about the whole Borderline Personality Disorder issue at the time, and I didn't know this is a universal thing experienced by people globally. Its a shame I didn't have this knowledge then because I...

In a word No! This isn't normal behaviour. For anyone. Mine did the same as this to me, as have countless other examples across this board. The internet is full of stories and accounts of these crazy people all doing the same crazy chit. The similaries are baffling! No rational...

I think I need to be more of an 'alpha douche' in the future

You would have been fully justified in breaking up with her for this. Just bear this in mind, when you start missing/thinking about her. In my case, I knew deep in my heart of hearts there was no way it would last, and I could sense there was something not quite right about her and ultimately...

As an aside point - On a few occasions when she would get extremely angry, I swear her eyes would turn almost jet black. No kidding The jezabel spirit needs a weak man to use or sponge off. I'm not perfect, but I'm certainly not weak

Don't know what response you've had for sharing that idea on here but I'm actually a practicing Christian so I believe there's potentially some truth in this. I did some research the other day and the whole Narc/BPD thing has the same characteristics as the Jezebel spirit. Bad ends? Let's...

I don't know really, just kinda curious. She told me she was becoming like a hermit the last time we spoken. It's like she's lost all personal or social confidence Sad really

This is true, each one of her exes has met a bad end and had some terrible outcome. I don't understand why she would seemingly facilitate this to happen....

Just been told by a mutual friend that my ex has deactivated/disappeared off Facebook. Anyone any idea what the psychology is behind this? Apparently he thinks she's been gone a few days

Only one other organism exists in this fashion! A TAPE WORM I've often wondered what her end-game was from me. Personally I think it was my house

Of this I've no doubt. In fact she's probably already met him. The last time I checked her Facebook a few weeks ago (not wise) she had new pictures on there with exes and random dudes liking them. The reason my curiosity has peaked though, is she said she had 'waited for years, for someone...