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    BPD ex.... 3 months out - need some advice

    Brilliant advice! On the advice of the guys in here I've joined a gym and have been 5 times this week. -- -Combined with the running and diet changes I've already lost a stone and am feeling healthier and seeing more definition in arms, back, chest, even my abs. The Gym is beneficial because...
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    BPD ex.... 3 months out - need some advice

    What are the chances Karma will catch up with this type of person?
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    If you see ex at gym?

    Ive been the gym 4 times this week now and have arranged personal training sessions to work out my goals/body type/nutrition requirement Some of the girls there are amazing and I've made eye contact with quite a few, all hot Right now, I couldn't give a fook about my ex
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    BPD ex moves on....

    Before me she once contacted an ex as 'friends for someone to talk to' went for drinks, and then her legs fell open like a cheaply made suitcase. I'd rate myself as a pretty good supply. Suppose I would fall under the Mr Stable/Nice guy category - Ideal for resources, bit of fun, borrowing...
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    BPD ex moves on....

    My ex was a master of this. To look at her she would seem perfectly content, but inside she'd be angry, frustrated, upset or whatever and you had NO idea what she was thinking. Mine has disappeared for now, blocked on facebook/changed number etc When you say hoovering, does this involve any...
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    BPD ex moves on....

    Hi With all the talk of BPD/Narcs/Crazy Women I'm curious....... Does anyone have a crazy ex who has moved on and successfully settles, married, raised children etc? Regards
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    Did You Do Better Than Your Ex??

    Exactly.....I am curious as to why it is difficult to get over these chick with BPD? They are addictive I don't even know if it does boil down to just looks and freaky sex
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    Did You Do Better Than Your Ex??

    Thank you :-) I cant wait to see how things work out for me 6 months or a year from now. By that point when I've developed in the gym, moved on, done exciting things I could never have done before I hope to look back with the attitude of "my ex aint chit" I look at things from this...
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    Corey Wayne responded to me

    Hey For anyone who's watched the grief I've been through over the past few months Corey Wayne made a video newsletter in regards to an email I sent. Here is the link ...
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    Did You Do Better Than Your Ex??

    Hey, if she's happy to go back to how she was before she met me, then I'm please for her
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    Did You Do Better Than Your Ex??

    I had almost dumped her numerous times before this.....ie when she wast starting drama for nothing, constant fighting, accusing me of cheating, trying to make up crazy rules in my house. You could be right though, the morning after she attacked me she had left and gone for the bus. Until Mr...
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    Did You Do Better Than Your Ex??

    True. I'd put myself at the top of that list. This wasn't hard considering some of the fck ups, ie she had dated in the past, abusers, drug dealers, low prospect guys etc When I last spoke to and saw her face-to-face she told me 'she could'nt even imagine being with anyone else right now' and...
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    Did You Do Better Than Your Ex??

    You're right. I taught her this by not kicking her to the curb or going ghost when she pulled crazy chit. Should have thrown her out then and there when she raised her hand to me
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    Did You Do Better Than Your Ex??

    Can someone explain to me what Alpha Widowed means as I think I may have done this to my ex......
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    Did You Do Better Than Your Ex??

    Yeah I can tell, like me, you got fixated on her looks and because at the time you thought she was decent looking you wondered what she was doing with you. I know with mine, I began thinking she was 'out of my league' and 'too hot to handle'. However, when I posted a pic of her on here the...
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    Did You Do Better Than Your Ex??

    This is your confidence being tarnished after being gas-lighted, discarded and having all of the blame put on you by your Narc/BPD ex. I know this because I'm in exactly the same position but I'm starting to see the truth for what it is..... "And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall...
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    If you see ex at gym?

    Went tonight, had a great time and feeling refreshed and ripped. There's some top quality women in there and everyone seems really nice as well. Didn't see her tonight, but I know she used that gym in the past. I think like you say djthaigo1 I may use her presence as motivation to get ripped...
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    If you see ex at gym?

    Hey I wondered what any of you guys would do if you see your ex at the gym? I'm going with the predicted response of nothing/ignore
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    Is this normal?

    In regards to my bpd/narc ex who seemed to like starting issues/problems/arguments with me....I still feel bad and hold myself responsible for it all going wrong. She seemed to enjoy the argument and try as I might, she wouldn't let things drop no matter how much I talked and explain things to...
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    How do I look?

    Cool, who can I pm it to?
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