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I believe that most women decide whether or not they want you within the first few seconds they meet you. I usually invite them to my house rather than go on a date. However, I don't think you should get into long term serious relationships if you can't afford a nice date once in a while.

Yeah I joined this site not too long ago. I don't know everyone else's stance on this. I'm a "move fast before another guy does" type of guy.

Why did you wait 3-4 days to text her after the date? She probably lost interest

It depends where you live in NYC. I make way less than 100k and have no problems. The further you are from Manhattan the cheaper it gets.

Nah I'm pretty much broke and I get laid. I get most of my women in Brooklyn which is where I live. You will obviously have an easier time if you're rich though. Every chick here is looking for a come up.

How tall are you and what do you rate yourself in terms of looks? I know a black guy who acts just like Carlton Banks (he can do the dance and everything), he comes from a well off family, and uses ZERO slang. He gets A LOT of attention and women approaching him but he has a girlfriend. The...

Every woman I've dated has called themselves a feminist when I asked. They still behaved properly so it never really mattered.

I think that site is not a great example to use. Instagram would probably be better. Search "hot guys" or "cute guys" on instagram and pick any one of the pages that you see. You can even get specific like "Asian guys" or something. These pages will have hundreds of comments on each pic and you...

What I've noticed while being an average looking guy is that picking up a whale, a plain Jane, or a hot girl requires the same amount of effort. I can't tell if there's something I'm doing wrong.

That's why I think that you can't force women to be attracted to you, but you can make them UN-attracted to you. Being incongruent with how she initially perceived you is what causes this.

Can you elaborate a little bit more on #4? An example?

The way I look at it is if a woman finds you very attractive for ANY reason (usually good looks) you don't need to play mind games with her.

I've read about these women dating sugar daddies and it seems like the majority of them also have boyfriends. They use the sugar daddy for money and **** their actual boyfriends at home.

I was in the EXACT same situation as you like 2 weeks ago. I texted her and we had very short convo then it just died. I even double texted. I would see her in class and we'd just say hi. So a few days ago I just decided to throw a hail Mary and told her she's pretty and asked her out. Now we're...

Exactly! Finding the right is the biggest part of getting laid. Companies spend millions just to target the right customers. I'm more likely to buy a new computer if I am looking for a new computer.

I agree with you. I believe in the fact that women make up their minds about you within the first few seconds of seeing you and you just have to not say something stupid. What do you think about this?

And even then it has nothing to do with what the girl thinks of you. Having confidence = you making the move. You could be 6ft+, handsome and never make eye contact and mumble your words. You just need to be confident enough to make the move. When a girl says "Just be confident!" she means...

I think the biggest reason why we have such an advantage has nothing to do with any one of us being superior. I think it has to do with the fact that over centuries white skin has been associated with being rich. Many minorities see whiteness as a status symbol. I don't even think they find us...

Actually there are many non-white countries where white men are preferred over the men that live there.

I'm a white guy in NYC and have dated a lot of Hispanic women. The few times I have met their family members I would always get complimented on my skin and blue eyes. I can get minority girls with ease. It's a bit harder for me to get white chicks though.