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"They both have boyfriends" why do so many guys insist of fighting losing battles?

UPDATE the date went well, everything went smoothly. we both had fun, and i could tell that she was being kinda shy. i did not bring up the 2-week wait period bit. after we ate, i took her home. she invited me up to her place. i stayed for maybe an hour and then excused myself. i...

i've got a date tonight (first one) with a girl i've casually known for a few months. here's how the date came about: i asked her out for last weekend, but she was already busy and had to counter-offer for this weekend. that's fine. then early last week she said she wanted to talk about...

i'm going out on a first date with a girl this weekend. i wanted to do something fun, so i chose ice skating. afterwards, i was going to grab some ice cream. problem is that the ice skating rink and ice cream place have different times of operation and i would only be able to get ice...

i say that you should definitely ask her out for this weekend...but don't say anything about a date per se... just say something like "hey i think it would be really fun to do xxx this weekend. wanna come with me?" -- it's just that it seems like she needs to get comfortable around you or...

UPDATE well, i was wrong. she does want to go out on a date, as she brought it up again. are her actions reminicent of a shy girl? she's not normally shy, but maybe on this subject she coils up a bit... i don't know.

anyone??

no i didn't kiss her after the first dinner. what bugs me so much is that everything that i know told me that she was interested... my gut should not lie to me like that, i made sure i wasn't acting with just my head/heart. frankly i was shocked at how stunned she appeared after i...

i had to sort of ask her out because the problem was this: i had talked to her before about another girl i was interested in. she even periodically asks me about any progress that i've made with the other girl. she actually asked me that day about the other girl. when i asked her out i...

before winter break i got together with this girl. we went out to dinner and she paid for me. the next day i left for home. she called and we talked a couple times over break. i got back from break and knew that i wanted to act on my gut feeling of asking her out-- your gut is nearly never...

i don't try and use my ride for pick-ups, but most every girl that has had the pleasure of riding with me has complimented my car: '99 Infiniti G20.

are you kidding me? forget this girl. use the confidence you gained from the experience to court a single female.

i have something to add to this post: before i left for winter break i thought i got a feeling about this girl that i hung out with a couple times...there were no real IOI's, but i just had a feeling she was interested. i'm going back to school this weekend and i'm going to ask her out...

there's a girl i hung out with a couple times before just before winter break. i felt like we were clicking pretty well before i left. we'll both be back in town for school this coming weekend. i'm ready to make a move on her so she knows exactly where i stand. should i: a) make a...

anyone?

UPDATE, Question... Joan called me up a couple times over break, and I've called her as well. The last time we talked she mentioned that she was unsure of exactly how she was going to get back to her place after she arrives at the airport. I told her that I'd be in town by then and that if...

awesome job man, congrats... if only everyone on this site had your resolve we'd have a lot more of these types of stories. keep the updates coming!

there: let's go over there to get some food their: that is their phone they're: they're going on the trip together

i just have to add this because i've been noticing it a lot lately, and i guess squirrels has too. nothing bugs me more... your: what is your name? you're (you are): you're going to be late to: i am going to the store too: there is too much icing on the cake two: my dog is two...

if she's as interested as you think she is, then i see no harm in bringing it up... i mean, if she's interesed then it will not put her off. let's hear what others have to say...