Question..

[cyjay201]

I know that your not supposed to EVER bring up the "R" word. However this one chick I've dated twice has been dropping a lot of hints. Recently she said that she has all these guys that are trying to get with her that she doesn't want any of them, (I'm not one of them, her actions have proven that.) Then she said "I'm SOO tired of being single."

We're hanging out on Saturday, she's dropping hints, and she's a HB9, I know you're not supposed to say "relationship" but what if she brings it up again...do I take the initiative? I need some help here guys.

P.S. In case your wondering, I got her number, called her once, she cancelled our original date, I told her that's too bad and that she missed her chance. She called me back multiple times and told me to give her another chance, which I did.

 

[golf299]

if she's as interested as you think she is, then i see no harm in bringing it up... i mean, if she's interesed then it will not put her off.

let's hear what others have to say...

 

[Fenderules]

she is hinting at it so she is telling you she wants it. but if its only after 2 dates i would not jump on the wagon. you wanna still stay a mystery and make her wonder "does he want me, does he want me as his girl or just a friend that he likes to be with (with advantages of course).

but you could bring it up in a way that says your curious to see waht she wants. If thats what you want and she wants, then keep dating her. It should nto do harm in this case cause she is the one saying that. and the guy thing is ploy telling you she is interested in you but you better take her seriously otherwise she will leave you

 

[cyjay201]

Thanks Fender, so should I just wait for her to bring it up again?

 

[cyjay201]

I'd like a few more opinions on this if possible.