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there's this girl i was kind of seeing. her IL was SKY-HIGH for about a month. she would call multiple times a day, etc. we went out quite a few times. then, suddenly and unexplainably, her IL died. so, what did i do? i called her up today and said, "hey xxx hope your weekened is going...

anyone??

i think that i may have been too available to her from the start. i would hardly call her at all, but i would always answer the phone and text her back right away when she called or texted. and maybe she got upset because i didn't make a move, but that's hard to tell. she said in the...

so how should can i redeem the situation? should i contact her and take her out and then make a move on her, or let her contact me? i really don't know what my next move should be here...

i was seeing this girl for a while...things were going well. she was calling or texting me multiple times a day for a solid month. then suddenly she went cold on me. she hasn't contacted me in over a week now. so what should i do? write her off completely and move on, or call her up...

Well, Nothing's Doing... wyldfire, the girl i posted about above hasn't contacted me all break. just a couple weeks ago she was calling and texting me multiple times a day... perhaps i was too available to her? anyway, her IL has dropped really low... my guess is that she may not...

So if you do give a girl too much attention (like I believe I have done lately with this girl I've been courting) and she does begin to pull away (like this girl did), what can you do to redeem yourself? We're on spring break right now (in different places) and I don't plan on trying to...

i have the exact same problem currently...i'd like to hear what others have to say...

any other insight???

i know, a massage seems pretty intimate to me too. by the way, she gave me a massage as well. how's this?: if she doesn't call over the weekend or even on monday, i'll call her. if we wind up getting together that night i'll pull the massage thing again. she'll be in my hands, so we'll...

that's what i'm planning on doing: waiting. but if she doesn't call, should i still not call on monday? i had a sort of deadline set for myself, and monday i was going to finally kiss the girl...

all right, in a previous post i talked about a girl that i asked out about a month ago. she said she wanted to but wasn't ready for the commitment yet. however, she showed high IL by calling me all the time and accepting dates. we hung out a lot. then suddenly she went cold on me for...

look, this girl is not interested. if she was, you would be telling us about your date in a field report. never call a girl this much, ever...especially if she's not calling you. don't play games by blocking your number to appear 'private'. if a girl is interested she will want to...

UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE well, for almost a week now she has gone cold on me.... -not calling at all -not picking up my calls -generally avoiding contact it's like a complete 180 from how she was less than a week ago... what should i do now? 1.) continue as if nothing is wrong and...

here's the situation: asked a girl out, she was trying to get over a past relationship--she didn't want to get hurt again because of past experiences. she said she was like half-way there but somehting was still holding her back. she just wanted to take it slow and see where it took us...

two steps forward, one step backwards... good luck.

dude, the problem is that no one cares that much about your problem to want to read all that nonsense. be pithy and your results will be much more rewarding...

you shouldn't respond to it - she's a crackpot. look, if she's going to tell you to seriously seek professional help after she gave you some "psychology test", then i believe she should really look into her own advice...

too long buddy....too long--no one's wants to read all that

i think it's about time to ask her out on a date