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    Agree or Disagree?

    The less attractive the girl, the better she responds to kindness. Is this a shallow hypothesis or is it the truth?
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    When your best buddy is a very attractive guy

    As an average-looking guy, I know I'm the underdog when I hang out with my better-looking friends. But there is a way you can use this position to your advantage. If the girls are fixated on the studs, it makes you more relaxed because there is no pressure to live up to any standards. Trust...
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    whats the WORST REJECTION youve suffered?

    Once, my friends and I approached a couple of girls dancing amongst themselves at a party. As we danced casually near them, they had a look of total disgust on their faces, so another girl comes out of nowhere to greet them, breaking our flow. We soon realized that this chick was supposed to...
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    Girls Who Refuse to Acknowledge Your Existence

    I started a thread about this a while ago on stand-offish chicks. The girl doesn't have to be hot, but I think that you have to have some small interest in her in order for it to bother you. Admit it, you like this girl and you want to prove that you are worthy of her attention. She's being...
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    Women only APPEAR attractive

    I recently had a chance to see a girl who rejected me without her makeup on. Now, I'm glad that she rejected me.
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    The FINAL Debate: Looks Vs. Personality

    The problem with this advice is that it's sooo anti-DJ. You seem to imply that an average-looking guy cannot get a hot girl unless if it's on a circumstantial basis. If so, then a guy like this surely won't be able to keep the girl once she "comes to her senses". I think that this is an even...
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    The FINAL Debate: Looks Vs. Personality

    I just saw a hot girl, nice face, killer bod with an average-looking guy (I'm sure I wasn't underrating him) who was about three inches shorter than her. He also seemed kind of shy. My guess is that it's all about how you make her feel. It's funny how certain scenes can change your thinking...
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    college: would you?

    And mine.
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    Jealous of non-dj, afc friend....

    Your friend was probably more DJ than it seemed. It doesn't take much for a goodlooking guy to be a DJ. He was quiet, so it gave him that mystery quality. She was probably thinking, "why is this hot guy so quiet?" After that, she wanted to get to know him better. Here's the math: mystery +...
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    Do Chicks Dig The Confident Loner?

    I'll admit that I'm not a complete loner but I still categorize myself as the "confident loner". I have friends, but I'm not a part of the cool clique and you can frequently find me eating lunch by myself. However, I can still talk to strangers, voice my opinions, and be humorous. I'm also...
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    I was asked out by a group of 6 girls...good chance for social proof? Or bad idea?

    Slickster, no one is debating whether or not Tantric should have a good time or "practice" on these broads, the question is whether or not this is good social proof. Social proof is evidence that let's other girls know of your prowess to interact with others, in this case, the HBs. Social...
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    I was asked out by a group of 6 girls...good chance for social proof? Or bad idea?

    It's not just you. Hanging out with more than two HBs at a time is going to make others question your sexuality. No one is going to think that you're banging all six of them (even if you are Brad Pitt). But if you are only about having a good time, then go for it, but know that it's NOT...
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    Why does everyone say looks don't matter? they do!

    I would have to agree with this. A woman can go from bad to alright depending on what type of makeup or revealing clothing she has on. Most guys don't have this luxury. But I do think that women like contrast in a guy. I'm entering my senior year of college but some people still think that...
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    Why does everyone say looks don't matter? they do!

    Here we go with another "Do Looks Matter?" post. I just have one word for all of you average-at-best looking guys (like myself): indifference. I'm a 21 year old, 5'10'', 150 lbs. black male with a babyface. Not a stud by any means but I've grown to care less. Life for me was a b!tch in...
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    How not to allow girls to get the best out of you?

    Not true. If the girl is really hot, then she might not have developed any sense of tact, seeing that society told her she didn't have to.
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    Reality

    True. But I've found that the best way to beat a goodlooking guy is through indifference. So the next time you see a girl giving her attention to a dull prettyboy, act as if you don't give a fvck and do your own thing.
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    For the ladies in the house

    I'm a guy and I already know the REAL answer in no particular order: 1. Looks - above average in body and face (see Ace and CT from the Real World) 2. Social status - knows a lot of people and has his own group of friends 3. Impression - He intimidates people 4. Attitude - Enjoys...
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    How to be friends and make her want more

    Here's what you do. You cut down on the attention you usually give her and start dating other girls. She'll see that you no longer need her and will become attracted to your independence. Fair warning: after doing this, you may realize that you don't want her anymore. ;) Forget about using...
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    How did you rid YOUR jealousy?

    One question. If you have a feeling that your girl is banging or thinking about banging another dude, how do you investigate?
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    My girl

    She isn't all that. I could be friends with her. I personally like my girls with a little more meat on them (especially in the trunk).
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