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No difference whatsoever. It only makes a difference if before you were fit you had super low self-esteem and you used your fitness to gain some self-esteem. To note that I've never not been fit, just used to be way skinnier and more of an amateur climber's body (slim but toned). I'm about 13Kg...

“never appeal to truth unless you're prepared to deal with the anger that comes from disillusionment”-Rollo Tomassi

I got a vivaro like this: but fully kitted out for glamping. Solar panel, bed, heater, etc. Girls I meet ALWAYS want to check it out.

That's not even that covert. I dated a girl from London whilst living in Oslo, and after banging for 3-4 months she didn't like her job anymore and was considering moving back to London, and then just asked "can you think of any reasons for me to stay?". Extra covert.

They will in the beginning until the relationship with the dude takes precedence. It's normal. And yeah, she is her friends.

Good point dude. With my low volume it's sadly disastrous.

Yes, but. Some women have not bothered trying to "get" me because they assumed I was out of their league and/or they thought I just wanted sex and wouldn't commit. So it's not so clear. Of course, if one has enough volume, then it's easier. But creating volume is really hard without devoting way...

But if I'm actively looking for a woman to have kids with... Reproduction is a selfish act. I'm acting on selfish self-interest to get into a relationship.

So I have to simultaneously not care but also put in a lot of effort.

The struggle is real. It doesn't matter that I'm ripped if nobody sees me

My expectations could also just be wrong. This year I've been with 4 girls, all 8+. One was a catwalk model, one was a (no joke) 9.5+ tall 22 year-old Swede that I could definitely catch feelings for(that gave me the best BJ I've ever gotten) . And she's the reason I'm bothered these days as I...

So it's not caring about the outcome but still putting some effort in. That's something else. I'm developing a "seed theory". You plant seeds, water them, and focus on the ones that sprout. You can't just ignore the seeds you plant, or not plant any seeds and expects something to sprout.

Sleep 8+ hours and maintain your protein intake for almost 0 muscle loss. But do drop your weights by 10% when starting again. And yeah, you will lose water weight that muscles keep when training often, but you gain this all back quite quick as it's just water.

How? I get what I focus on. If I focus on my purpose you bet your ass I won't be getting women. I need to make a conscious effort to meet women, it doesn't just happen in my daily life. I did this from 17-24, only got laid when I started focusing more on women. I can go full autism and just...

It's mostly garbage though on dating apps. Corona makes the rest harder. I'm just gathering my balls and just start hitting on chicks IRL. Which is far from the culture here, I doubt it will work well.

I've never had a girlfriend that didn't either have a PhD or wasn't working on one. They eventually resented the fact that I out-earned them as a high-school dropout.(IT)

Ok right now I spend maybe 1% of time on women. Maybe that's my problem?

There's no abundance. Especially now with corona, I don't meet many people at all. Unless I drastically lower my standards, there is no abundance whatsoever. How do you deal with this?

the randomness inherent in the game, right place right time, etc. I bagged a 10/10 18 year-old pro swimmer when I was a scrawny 21 year-old with no clue about women(minus the stuff that comes naturally to me, I'm funny and attractive) Right place right time. Didn't even game her. This guy gets it

ok good to know I'm looking for the right cues