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Hey Englishman, I'm Australian. Have nothing to really compare in terms of nationalities...although on my trip to Europe I did go to a dodgy club in the suburbs outside London where the women were outrageously slvtty...but I suspected most of them were single mum's looking for a hubbie...and I...

I'm 35 and I look the same or younger than my age. Have been told by many (including the aforementioned mid 20s crew) that I look late twenties.

Hey all, do any of you guys on this board notice declining signals of interest form women...in the street, or just about anywhere really...as you get older? I'm just out of an LTR...have resolved to change my AFC ways, have bought new threads, got the hair done etc...(he...

Hey all, usually post in the Mature Man section but thought this question belonged here. Just out of a LTR and a bit rusty on this stuff (and a lot of it is new...being a recovering AFC) but...approaching women on trains, buses etc... ...is this a no-no? Seems to me its fine...

I blush and giggle like a schoolgirl...but then again, I am called Kandyass... :p No, but seriously, usually my face just lights up with a big smile and I'm really happy and say thanks...but then I turn it back on them and return some kind of compliment straight away...usually keeps the...

"Kandyass, I realize what you're saying about this relationship being mainly based through the internet/phone and that things might be different when we spend time together. I wouldn't commit to moving permanently if through all the visits, things didn't work out the way we planned..." I'm...

Hey Mikeman! I believe in love. I don't think anyone here is trying to invalidate your feelings, its just that you seem to have idealised a relationship that has developed on a very slender basis and are not only considering making some major decisions based on that but are going through...

Hey Mikeman! and all, am fairly new to this forum but reading this thread I just had to put in my two cents. I'm totally agreeing with Desdinova and Westcoaster! I got so frustrated reading your story Mikeman. I've been through a very similar thing with...

I'm in! Hey guys, interesting to read your stories. I've just come out of an LTR a few weeks ago and have decided to tackle my AFC issues with the Boot Camp. I bailed on the first attempt and haven't had time since but this week I start. So, would be cool to swap stories...

Hey guys, lookin' for some advice if y'all got the time. Am recently out of an LTR that I ended. Am also a RAFC and aspiring DJ. Because I have hobbies, career, friends etc I decided what I needed to get me out of AFC land was to do the DJ Bootcamp and get laid, preferably...

Never too late to start. Yeah, my recent ex has depression...but no way did she ever treat me that badly! :eek: From what you say it sounds like you were 150% supportive but that she abused that support to the max. But I think the point is, and I'm just starting to realise this myself so...

Very funny...:rolleyes:

Don't know if this is a stupid question but...I'm growing my hair long just to see what it looks like. I've had really short hair all my life and I don't feel that comfortable with long hair...however all my female friends say it looks good and better than when my hair is short. Should I...

Inexperience and living together. Hey guys, interesting thread. I realise everyone is different but I just thought I'd let you know that both the LTR's I lived with who were younger than me and who hadn't lived with their partner before bailed on me and burn't me bad. :eek:

the Hunted 2... Don't know if anyone is still following this thread but just thought I'd let you know what's happening... If you recall I told the LTR that we were finished as soon as she gets on that airplane for her indefinite (can stay 6 months max) trip o/s. I think I pulled an AFC...

Co-habitation. Hey guys, I'd have to say that most of my co-habitation experiences ended in me being shafted (mostly due to being an AFC) but most of the women I know don't believe in marriage and don't want to get married. Whether that means they don't want to be committed is...

The hunted... If anyone doubts about the basic ideas this website is founded on then this should help change their mind; ...having told the LTR that as soon as she leaves for o/s our relationship is over...she keeps calling me, wanting to see me, being extra nasty in bed...in short, pursuing...

Living together. Some really good points raised in this discussion. None of my live-in relationships have lasted more than two years...and I've usually been left out of pocket at the end of them. However, most of the women in my social scene don't believe in marriage and don't want to get...

Post-Mortem 2 Speede-meme: as to how she re-acted to the break up...she cried...a lot...which I found very difficult to deal with and I began to feel like a total bastard...UNTIL...I remembered why I was doing it in the first place and how supportive I'd been of her in the last year or so...

Post-mortem... Well, I bit the bullet and did it...split up with the LTR. Told her she could come look me up when she got back but that as soon as she is gone I'm single again and she'll have to take her chances. It wasn't easy, but you know what? I feel heaps better! I think I've...