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When I read this... I kept thinking of the movie Sex Drive... and the geeky/nerdy a-hole dude who gets all the chics... maybe he did self-affirmations, too!

I really hope that's a joke. Women can sense this kind of internalized attitude. Maxtro... that would work for me! jk ;)

Uhm, smart guys leave the jailbait alone... Otherwise, very good post... I agree that most of it is fairly accurate. :up:

Actually, I believe I said the test would be for fun and starters. This thread itself is not about the test, but the test is apart of the thread. I have much more to discuss, and not necessarily about the test. I am in discovery "mode" and later will summarize my areas of improvement, but...

I have a better understanding of this now. I guess I have been guilty of this recently, but it definitely wasn't due to "lukewarm interest levels" at all... I just thought it was the 'right' way to be, as a woman. The notion I had prior to visiting these forums is that I would be...

I DON'T INITIATE CONTACT WITH THIS GUY ANY MORE!!!! Goodness, I am saying is that everytime I'm doing well, he'll text or call me, and it does mess me up, wondering wtf he wants/what is his motivation for contacting me. I DON'T, as in, DO NOT EVER initiate contact, as in I AM TRYING TO MOVE...

I literally have tears in my eyes after reading this. How on Earth could anyone do this to a child??

I like this. It is true, however, I don't plan on not being sexual within a relationship.. I mean, I do like it too! By saying the kind of man I'd "want" to have sex with is probably the type of guy to leave if I withhold it... are you referring to...? Experience? If you wouldn't mind...

My heart goes out to you. I really feel your pain. I just don't understand, though... you have all of this awareness of what went wrong, (at least on your part), so why did you continue to chase her away? I left an ex a few years ago for the same things... and the minute I realized things...

I understand your point of view, KX, the problem is this strongly contradicts the way I was raised. It's difficult to change mindsets about these sort of ingrained thoughts. I'm not even sure how I would go about it, (and yes, the funny thing to say here would be to tell me to start putting it...

Heh not to scare you or anything but isn't there a STD that causes increased libido? That could maybe explain her insatiable appetite and perhaps your symptoms?? Again I'm not trying to scare you... just throwing that out there. :) I don't remember which one it was, but I saw a program...

Good lookin' guy. I dig the stubbled look. (Well I dig facial, and even body hair, too, so I guess that goes hand in hand). :) I'd like to see who else is rockin' the stubble... :D :up:

Good to know! Pretty easy stuff, here. :up: This is the same basic idea I use. It's really just common sense... if they like you, they will stick around. Some guys here don't agree with with-holding, many saying that a woman who won't put out by the 3rd date is 'wasting' their time...

I haven't "initiated" contact in about 3 weeks. This is true... I did miss him as a friend, most of all. Hindsight is always 20/20... and I realized before even posting this, how it would make me seem, but you know the truth is the truth, and I'm not going to conceal that. Yes, this is what...

I really like this post. :up: I'll be checking out your blog. :)

Truth or Lie, I am still just really perplexed as to why she would tell you this. I simply can't wrap my brain around what on Earth it could possibly accomplish... except maybe sympathy?

You are so ridiculously ignorant, as you haven't read anything I wrote. I express myself here, not to him. If ceasing (the initiation) of contact and exploring other options is your definition of "clingy" then I'd be obliged to think you have zero experience with women at all.

Wow... I don't have much to add here, but wanted to extend my condolences. True or not, that was a terrible thing for her to do, either A.) to not allow you any involvement in the decision process, or B.) Lie about it altogether... I am very, very sorry, because either way this is having a...

Yes, that is exactly what I mean. You can just 'tell' if that makes any sense. I know it's vague, but indicators (to me) are, he has a lot of chic friends, even FWB, an active social life, and noticing other women's reactions to him while in public situations. NO! Absolutely not! I...

Wow, have you seriously been reading EVERYTHING I've been writing? I think not! It should go something like this: - Girl and Guy Meet - Guy expresses IOI's in Girl (No interest? He *began* the flirting and such). - Girl reciprocates IOI's - Girl and Guy make out. Guy initiates. - Girl...