Good exercise to help you with women

[Daddy The Pimp]

One of the exercises that you can do at home is visualize yourself as the cool guy that you want to be. Do it before going to sleep and when you wake up.

Visualize yourself entering the club , approaching some smoking hot babes , getting them all interested , laughing and then isolating them.

Visualize bringing the fun to every set you go , getting every set very hooked and attracted to you.

Everyone is liking you and wanting to be around you.


Now you might ask , why should i do this ?
Because you convince your unconscious mind that you can do this , that you can be the cool guy. And when you're out you will immidiately hit the state and go and do that sh1t that you visualized .

This sh1t is powerful trust me. Because if we can give permission to ourselves to be what we want , to be cool than everyone is going to treat us as cool people.

So , this is one of the ways to give permission to yourself to be cool.

Thats it , have fun.

 

[Fallen]

Autosuggestion is a well known concept around here. Everbody knows about its powers and possibilities. Not only with women but with every facette of your life where you need improvement. Be it to shake bad habits or to support and implement good ones. No real news here.

Unfortunately, the idea of autosuggestion has been mentioned, discussed, promoted and advertised over and over again. The inevitable result is, that about 90% of the DJs here think to themselves "i got that one down" when the fact is, that they don't.

Doing affirmations/autosuggestions for a couple of days in a row or every once in a while isn't gonna cut it.
To install a new good habit, a new idea, a new concept (and make the old and bad one vanish into obilvion for good) takes a lot of time and discipline.
I read somewhere that it takes 3 weeks to get rid of a bad habit and another 3 weeks to install a new one.
This means that for AT LEAST the next 42 days you do not only have to visualize, speak out loud, say to yourself, imagine etc. the concepts of the "new you" every morning, evening or whenever you want. What is more important and more difficult to accomplish is whenever your old bad thoughts arise (and they will, believe me) you immediately have to shut them down and instantly replace them with the new ones. To make new, good ideas run on autopilot you have to stay on your toes for a long time.
It makes no sense and will have no effect if you tell yourself in the morning after getting up and then at night before bed what a great guy you are, if the rest of the day your old self with all its demons and doubts has the upper hand.
Discipline and awareness are key here. Just a reminder.

 

[novaguy7]

Hi from a newbie everyone, that is the right way to look at it, going to the club tomorrow and will surely do that

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Fallen , i've been here around but i have never seen a post that explains this sh1t. Anyway , a reminder is cool.

Yea its true , most of them think that they have it and no need for to lie to your unconscious mind. But the truth is different. Do it guys and report back.

 

[Night Owl]

Try reading the 'The Secret' book, which is basically the dummies guide to the law of attraction if you need to know on this subject - it works for me every time. Read and learn one of life's best kept secrets....

.. and it takes 21 days of a new idea to set up a new neural path way in the brain so it becomes permanent...

 

[Fallen]

Fallen , i've been here around but i have never seen a post that explains this sh1t.

I think it is mentioned in the DJ bible and the bootcamp script in one way or another. Several other threads about one's mindset etc. as well.
"As you think you shall become" sounds familiar too.
My post was to support yours, not to oppose it, Bro. Probably a poor choice of words on my part.

Affirmations or like you describe, visualizations, are a very powerful tool, especially for the shy and introverted guy with low self esteem and a lot of doubt in him. In the beginning it might feel strange to say your affirmations out loud, but once you've internalized a positive dialogue with yourself and a positive image of yourself, you'll realize that it's the only way to be.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Yea , affirmations are very similar brother. Im talking about Visualizing (imagining) yourself "LORDING" the venue. This is a little bit different but has the same effect as AFFIRMATIONS. Thanks for supporting.

They are cool also for the guys that think that are good with women. Everyone should use them in my opinion. And as u said , they help for every aspect of your life whether is job , relationships , PU or whatever.

RESPECT.

@nightowl
Yea man , i saw THE SECRET documentary. Its a good one. The concept is good but all that "UNIVERSE WILL GIVE YOU" was not necessary in my opinion.

The summary of "THE SECRET":
SET A GOAL
VISUALIZE IT
TAKE MASSIVE ACTION
and universe will give it to you. So , you will achieve it.

I recommend watching it too , i loved it.

 

[Bling]

Yeah, I don't believe it. Guys day dream about this stuff everyday, but never do it.

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

When I read this... I kept thinking of the movie Sex Drive... and the geeky/nerdy a-hole dude who gets all the chics... maybe he did self-affirmations, too!

 

[novaguy7]

Kegels are the best by far, try googling how to kegel and you can find videos on how to do it

 

[Nutz]

I'm all for visualization exercises as a form of mental preparation, but affirmations IMO are a bunch of baloney. If you want to really be a stud then stop telling yourself you're one and actually go out there and become one! Steel is not strong from being told it is so. Its strength comes from being tempered in the fires of life.

 

[cool dude]

SO what would I do,just visualize myself being mad cool and pulling off mad chicks? What do I tell myself to change?Like I want to be very outgoing and everyone will like me? I will pull girls most of the times. I will be popular and have a big social network?Do i just tell myself that kind of stuff?

 

[Nutz]

SO what would I do,just visualize myself being mad cool and pulling off mad chicks? What do I tell myself to change?Like I want to be very outgoing and everyone will like me? I will pull girls most of the times. I will be popular and have a big social network?Do i just tell myself that kind of stuff?

Visualization and affirmation are two different things. Visualization is just mentally rehearsing everything you want to say or do. We do this all the time and often don't even realize it. Why this can be a bad thing is we often go over negative things that happen in our daily lives and inadvertently train ourselves to repeat those past mistakes. For example, if you have a set that goes badly, don't recount over and over again the things that went wrong. Instead you should be going over the things that went well and change the things that went bad to stuff you want to try different in the future.

This is sorta tied to hypnotism in a way and is akin to how they shuffle around the "knowns" in the subconscious mind.