I was talking with a buddy in a bar once, and some girl pinched my ass and said "Are you gonna buy me a drink?" I said "Can I pinch your ass too?" She said "No." I said "No drink for you."
Listen, girls aren't stupid. They know what they're doing and are always on the lookout for guys they can...
You have to remember, guys have very little social value in a bar/club. If the girl is attractive, they skip lines, drink for free and have the entire place filled with guys on liquid courage waiting for their opportunity. You have the added competition of not only those guys, but their male...
It's impossible to tell what the girl was thinking. Regardless, I think you handled the situation fine. Maybe she was prude and thought you moved too fast, who knows.
More fish in the sea!
The problem is, the OP didn't say anything about living near clubs or hotspots that favor him logistically. I've been in Los Angeles; it's a very sprawling city and having a car is a must. We're not talking New York City where everything is accessible by walking or subway.
I would advise him to...
Here's how one of my recent conversations with a girl went (roughly):
Me: Is that your naughty outfit?
Her: What's your definition of naughty?
Me: A cute girl in an outfit like that.
Her: I'm innocent
Me: Until proven guilty.
(she laughs)
Me: So what is this, girls night out?
Her...
When it comes to the bars/clubs on the weekend, you always go for the f-close that night. Reason being there's a very short window of opportunity with party girls. You gotta get 'em in the moment while they're still in party mode. You fast forward a couple days later, they're no longer buzzed up...
The bar scene is relatively simple in regards to a ONS (theoretically). It's like fishing. You throw your line in the water, and you see what bites. By that I mean you hit multiple different bars, talking to many girls throughout the course of the night. Preferably starting early (7, or 8'ish)...
The problem with wingmen (in my experience) is that they all have different skill levels and ideas about how to get women. Most of my friends wanted to sit at the bar and wait for women to approach them. What ends up happening is a fat bar bill and only talking to one or two girls throughout the...
I'm 25 and started getting tired of the bar/club scene about a year or so ago. The cost, the combativeness of the women, the c0ckblocks, etc. It just really wasn't worth my time anymore and became very redundant. Not to mention the hangovers that came with it. I had fun though, and gained a lot...
P.S. - Listen, I'll be honest with you guys. I sympathize with the OP. I see a lot of similarities between him and myself. Just from the few words he's posted, I can tell you I was in the same boat. It just struck a chord with me.
It's pretty devastating knowing the girl you had oneitis for...
She has a cute face, nice smile and a slender little body. The girl-next-door look. I actually prefer girls like that. To me, big boobs or huge ass isn't really a necessity. There's nothing hotter than taking a classy looking innocent girl and banging her like a naughty little French maid. It's...
I think you played it pretty cool with your last response. Little bit of advice, strictly anecdotal - don't invite chicks out to a bowling alley. At least not right away. It comes off too strong, and sends out the relationship vibe. Keep it mind not many girls are good at bowling, and it's...
Not my forte. I've noticed people who smoke weed tend to be a lot more introverted and generally just keep to themselves. Sitting in a room getting high to me, is boring. I would rather be out drinking and socializing with people.
Whether it's guys just starting out, or in your situation hitting a dry spell, one of the first things guys think they need to do is "bulk up". What people don't understand is that it's usually not the problem. It's not like the girl's going to be like "OMG he doesn't have huge biceps, I'm not...
2 calls and a text? And you're thinking about calling her again?
Then you're going back to the bank to talk to her?
Wow. The security guard is probably going to escort you out for harassing this chick.
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