Day Game Champion - Night Game Chump

[Young Stallion]

Damn think I summed up my question brilliantly in my title.

I have always had great day game, I can approach girls anywhere during the day, talk to girls, get girls numbers and go on dates subsequentally after. In fact it is just fun for me and flirting and having fun is just my damn way of being and I dont care if I even ask for a number let alone get a number most of the time.

HOWEVER

Night game, going to clubs I always seem to be brushed aside on the dance floor, the ladies always walk away when I approach or wont give me the time of night whatsoever.

I believe the answer to my own question relies on charisma because I think its my charisma that gets me my success during the day. However night game it is very hard to let charisma shine and you have to rely on what your momma and poppa gave you when you were born.

What are some good ways to succeed in clubs and bars in night game? I find girls find it awkward in clubs when you say hi my name is X, what is your name? They do however seem to respond to random dancing crazy dudes who dance with them and are funny, however when I try this it does not work, perhaps because I have a very mature, serious look and vibe.

So fire away boyz, teach an old 29 year old dawg some new trix.

-YS

 

[European-DJ]

I know this isn't the anser to your questions, but i wish i had your 'problem'.

I am an expert at Night game, but mann i suck at daygame!

The Reason i would rather be In your shoes is:

Night game is:
- more expensive
- lower quality woman (not every Girl goes to clubs, but All girls go to School/Work/mall/park/etc.)
- you miss many hours of sleep
- you end up drinking alcohol
- etc....

So In my point of view, you have more of a gift, than a Problem

 

[ATX1001]

Play to your strengths, and then go stronger.

Fu*k night game. Polish your day game until chicks get so wet while talking to you they slip and fall.

You don't have to be good at everything and if you're swimming in puzzy from success during the day, just go on dates/dinner/movies at night. Who needs clubs?

 

[evansblue]

You have to remember, guys have very little social value in a bar/club. If the girl is attractive, they skip lines, drink for free and have the entire place filled with guys on liquid courage waiting for their opportunity. You have the added competition of not only those guys, but their male friends who are there (or will be shortly), plus their girlfriends who will do anything to keep you away because they don't want their friend getting more attention than them.

If you want success in the night game, you need to start approaching it like day game. Start early. You keep the conversations short (2 or 3 minutes), get the digits and make a swift exit. If you think you can initiate a few more girls without the previous ones noticing, go for it. Hit up a bunch of spots throughout the night and keep mowing 'em down. At the end of the night you should have collected somewhere in the neighborhood of 10-15 numbers, depending on the circumstances. Text these girls and ask them to meet up for a late drink either at another bar... or your place (if you're smooth enough).

I used to get about 10 or 12 numbers, and my work would be done for the night. Eight or so would text me back, four would be willing to meet up for a drink, and out of those four I would try to siphon out who was down for a shag. If nothing happened with the one I met up with, I would go back and text the other three. I've found that if I don't meet up with any of these chicks that night, it usually doesn't go anywhere. You have a shot the next night if it's a Saturday, but if the weekend goes by, forget it. You pretty much need a new batch of numbers. The bar/club scene is very "in the moment". You need to tempt a girl's spontaneity.

One thing you don't want to do is announce yourself in front of her social circle - that isn't going anywhere. You want to keep a low profile without drawing attention to yourself. Reason being girls do not want to be labeled "easy", especially with their friends present who most definitely would gossip behind their back. They won't take that risk, trust me.

If the girl's in a group, wait until her friends wander off, go to the bathroom, get distracted, whatever. I can't stress this enough - you do not want to be center stage and in the spotlight with her social circle watching. The girl will not feel comfortable giving you her number with her friends standing there. It will be awkward for her and make her feel promiscuous.

This is why establishing "social value" is useless. Once you've made a huge entrance in front of her group, you've ruined your chances. They will judge you, c0ckblock you, be jealous that their friend is hogging the attention, whatever. It's in their nature to find something wrong with you, not only because they're looking out for her, but because their own selfish pride is hurt and they feel left out. Worse of all, girls will listen to anything their friends tell them. They care very much what other people think. This is why I go to great lengths avoiding her friends.

The benefit of doing this is that the girl won't look like a slvt, which is what they're afraid of. She will be much more willing to meet up with you and have sex because her friends don't know you, and nobody knows what she's doing or where she's going. This means her reputation is not on the line and nobody will judge her. I call this "social security" and it's something that's often overlooked, but extremely important when it comes to women.

 

[SMS 48]

I can totally relate to how you feel OP because I really suck at night game, however I also really suck at day game.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

You only live once. Approach these woman with confidence and your sky is the limited. I recently learned this. No matter who the broad is don't get discouraged. Go up to her confidently and put your bid in. If she says no you haven't lost anything.

When I enter the club I make sure to sprinkle game on a lot of girls. Just small talk with a lot of girls. During the night I will step up to the finer girls and put my bid in. I try to dance with them and then talk to them. If the talking is going good I'd take her to the back of the club or in an isolated area where I can really chop it up. Just rinse wash and repeat through the night.

You can apply this to gaming any woman you want. When you get your game up you only go after the finer girls though.

Here’s some tips from me for the club.

1. Don't get too drunk. Drink a little to get tipsy but don't get drunk to the point that it'll just screw your game.

2. Don't be approaching these ugly broads. Chicks will look and judge you off that. Approach only the good looking girls and these other girls will judge you goodly. She will then wish she was approached.

3. Don't get mad if you get rejected. It is better then her leading you on.

4. If one of her friends try to ****bl0ck you then. Call the **** blocking friend to the side and check her in a friendly way where she gets the message.

I still stick to this. Works like a charm. Main thing you must do is sprinkle a little game on it. Usually I will step to a girl and ask her if she is having fun. Then introduce myself to her. After that I can decide if I want to chop it up with her there or dance or tell her to save me a dance later (when it's time to find the wifey for the night). Play the game smart my brotha.

 

[r0cky]

Tip #1 to talk to club girls: Get in their face. In the club, girls are being bombarded with loud music, lights, friends, competition from other girls, guys, and other distractions. In order to block those distractions you must get her whole focus to be on you. You do this by getting within inches of her face. Not in the way where you're leaning into her, but standing in a dominant way.