What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
My thoughts exactly. Regardless of what they look like - you can't be too too sweet. Some of them also play the role of a nice girl. Finding a middle ground is best. It also depends on the kind of person they are, which you can't find out for a while. Not assuming or trusting too soon is the best route to take. Someone who looks good can still be bad; don't be fooled by initial appearances. Treat them as you would anyone else until you know them well. If they seem decent - there's no reason to not be decent back. Just don't go overboard into nice guy territory. That works for no one, and simply isn't attractive. All girls like a challenge, mystery, and things like that.Jariel said:
Yes, believe it or not, she has slept with a lot of guys (as I later found out). If I were to guess, it's 20-30+. Lots of one night stands. (I got access to her email one day...) That really shocked the hell out of me (and led to me becoming majorly insecure).floydb25 said:
It's not suprising. I know girls like this, and have experienced them in our own relationships as well. You absolutely cannot assume anything, or trust anyone, or be fooled by how they want to be perceived. Most everyone plays the good girl role. Guys as well. You have to keep your guard up and not give anyone the benefit of the doubt. Don't be fooled by appearances, behaviors, or words (ie, claims, lies, and excuses). Most people aren't as sweet and innocent as they WANT you to believe, and will try to put themselves in the best light possible. But, if you pay close attention - you can still see the cracks, and tell when something is amiss.easun said:
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
That is so common its actually disgusting. I one time asked a girl I went nuclear with if her boyfriend liked the taste of different c0cks every night. I dodged a pretty hard slap.
True, but they still try to save face about it. That's where men get screwed up sometimes. Who they claim to be, and want you to believe they are isn't who they really are. They're basically lying. I can see bitterness stemming from that. But this is just one of life's lessons that we learn the hard way by dealing with people over time. We all learn not to trust so easily, aren't fooled anymore, etc.Vice said:
