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    FWB acting weird, but still talks to me...

    UPDATE. After a few weeks of lack of communication I held my ground and didn't let it bother me, didn't bother responding or bombarding her with multiple messages. A few Snapchats here and there, she liked a Instagram post and then out of the blue last weekend, asked me to swing by her place...
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    Gf’s “boss”

    Look at it this way, you get to hit that / sleep with her while this guy is basically making his self WAAAAAAY to available and practically coming off beta as hell to her. All you do is smirk, say "Heh, how about that" and then plow her. Be coy, play it cool, because it could also be a test...
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    FWB acting weird, but still talks to me...

    So since Monday there's bit a little bit of communication here and there but I've been going radio silent as well. She let me borrow a few books and I posted that I was reading one, to which she writes "That looks familiar" and I just downplayed it with a little bit of humor. Then I finished...
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    FWB acting weird, but still talks to me...

    I tend to keep an eye on things and make sure things are in check, not obsessive or clingy but rather judging things so that if it comes to it I can quietly exit/disappear/deattach. My assumption is that this girl thought she was getting too close for comfort, I was reminded that women say and...
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    FWB acting weird, but still talks to me...

    Know that she’s definitely not taking to her ex because of the way he treated her, he burned her bad. As for other guys, maybe? For all I know it could be a test to see if I’m super clingy She has said sex stopped with previous guys when they started to get clingy
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    FWB acting weird, but still talks to me...

    Actually this was after sex she said it, saying that men were trash but I was one of the nice ones... and we still smashed a handful of times after that.
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    FWB acting weird, but still talks to me...

    I've been in an FWB with someone for about a month, and the sex has been fantastic. There's been cuddling on her couch, passionate kisses and hugs before I leave, sometimes long hugs where she exhales. Tells me she loves kissing me, and loves the affection shown to her. She's been out of a 4...
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    Not sure if personal trainer at gym is interested...

    Would seem like the easiest option, though she's always running around or training a client.
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    Not sure if personal trainer at gym is interested...

    Long story short, I've been single for almost 2 years now, never really been interested in dating, more so just into myself and being the best version of me. Of course with this, I'm completely oblivious/not aware of the "obvious signs" from women, as like I said, just into myself. I joined a...
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    Ex girlfriend making her presence known?

    6 months ago, I got dumped. She dumped me. Since then I joined a gym (I go 3x a week and have got more serious about it), I've been hanging out with good friends and have been focusing back on my work. Lately I've been seeing my ex in public, and there are some questionable things that...
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    Got a call from the ex an hour ago...

    After about 2 weeks of not seeing each other, and no contact... I just got a call about an hour ago from my ex, I picked up, said hello, and all I could hear was background talking. After a few seconds, I hung up and sent a text saying "Not sure you mean to call me..." Question is, was this a...
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    Total social media blockage -- is it a game?

    I've been hitting the gym and getting my mind off of her, however I did check her Instagram earlier this morning and noticed that she even deleted old photos of her ex... So there is no photos of any guy at all on her Instagram, leading me to believe that this is perhaps some kind of breakdown...
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    Total social media blockage -- is it a game?

    Thanks for all the input guys, really appreciate it. A part of me wants to believe that she's mature enough (she's 24) that she wouldn't be acting immature, or thinking "Oh he's gonna flip, I know he's gonna ask people why or ask me why!" But then again, I don't know how badly she could be...
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    Total social media blockage -- is it a game?

    This is most likely true. While it sucks, she had to bring herself to my profile, and unfriend me. I most likely bet she was debating it for a while but ultimately did it, I don't know the reasons why. I think she was expecting me to freak out and text her but I'm not going to do that. No...
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    Total social media blockage -- is it a game?

    Definitely not going to let it bother me. I mean, it's a bit shocking yes -- and I don't know the reasons, so there's no point in making up reasons.
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    Total social media blockage -- is it a game?

    Last week I got dumped, and yes it sucked. What I wasn't prepared for next was the complete blockage of social media. First I was unfollowed on Instagram, then I was blocked on Snapchat, then finally today I was unfriended on Facebook (despite for being friends prior for 2 years) I...
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    Got to be with the girl I've liked for 2 years, but it's over...

    A week has passed. At first, it was really hard and my mind would start to race. But as I had time away, I began to realize that I lost touch with myself. That I actually was acting more like a kid, than I was an adult. I didn't stand up for myself, and I let her push me a bit far, I spoke...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Got dumped Sunday. Went a day without talking. 7/1 -- Texted her my frustrations and felt like I was being taken for granted. She said "If it makes you feel better say it, then respect that I want space from you" 7/2 - 7/3, no contact. Joining a gym. Went for a run earlier today. Got...
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    Got to be with the girl I've liked for 2 years, but it's over...

    This thought ran in my head, but she's never been a cheater, nor one to leave someone for someone else unless she's out of a relationship. I think that I definitely overwhelmed her to a point where I should have had the mindset of leaving it all at just having fun, but got caught up with...
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    Got to be with the girl I've liked for 2 years, but it's over...

    When I was over at her place for the break up, I asked her "Well don't you care for me?" And she kind of pushed the question aside. When I texted her and told her that I was frustrated on how she treated me at times, in which she said I should tell her. She said "If it will make you feel...
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